How to create a fun learning environment for kids

Cultivating a space where curiosity thrives, imaginations soar, and hearts are touched by the wonders of God’s creation is an incredible process to be part of. As mums we have the opportunity to provide that for our children yet at the same time, it can feel overwhelming when we think of our tidy homes being transformed into a playground for little hands, minds and feet. Creating a fun learning environment is totally doable in any environment, and with a few systems and strategies in place, we can transform pockets of areas, and most importantly our atmosphere to bring life to all the souls that dwell in it.

I lean toward minimalism, but I have still found a few ways to make room for play and imagination in my home. In today’s post I am sharing some ideas that we have incorporated into our space to make learning fun for our 3 boys.


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  1. Use colourful, relatable and engaging decorations: Decorating a wall or part of it with beautiful thought provoking artwork helps to spark the imagination. Incorporating bright colours within the learning space such as posters, artwork, and educational materials related to the subjects your children are studying is useful for igniting further interest in that area. So take your time to search for beautiful imagery, because it’ll not only be visually beautiful and inspiring to look at, but it’ll naturally lead to a conversation about the creativity, wisdom and unmatched power of God.
  2. Incorporate Games and Interactive Activities: Integrate educational games, puzzles, board games, and interactive learning activities that make learning feel like play. These can also include scavenger hunts, role-playing games, and simulations. Teaching on and learning about subjects such as Maths, English, History and Science can be brought to life by incorporating hands on activities. This just cements the information and children are more likely to remember facts and information when it is presented in a vivid way. The boys love learning in a very hands on way, and with my kinesthetic learner, group activities, and hands on activities work really well.
  3. Create a Cozy Reading Nook: Design a comfortable and inviting reading area with bean bags, pillows, rugs, and shelves stocked with a variety of books, including fiction, non-fiction, and picture books. This could be in the children’s bedrooms, or in the living area next to the sofa. Reading nooks serve as a personal sanctuary (no matter how small or simple it is) and encourages regular quiet reading time which is great for everyone! It helps to break reading and learning out of a box and reinforces the truth that learning can and does happen everywhere!
  4. Utilise Hands-on Learning Materials: Providing manipulatives, such as blocks, LEGO, puzzles, and art supplies, that children can use to explore concepts in a tactile and hands-on manner is great for creating a fun learning environment. They are so useful for engaging the mind during down time or “gap moments” before something else is scheduled to take place. I have found that my boys are always engaged for a while as it really suits their learning style.
  5. Integrate Technology in a Purposeful Way: Incorporating educational apps, interactive whiteboards, educational videos, and digital resources can enhance learning experiences and allow children to explore topics in innovative ways. The boys love watching Science Max at Large, Dude Perfect, Superbook, Dr Bionics and Science Planet.
  6. Outdoor Learning Spaces: Taking advantage of outdoor spaces for learning activities whenever possible is a must if you want to create a fun learning environment for children. They love to run, jump, dive, create and so much more. If you don’t have a garden or balcony space, the park or fields, trails are absolutely great for getting everyone outdoors for fresh air and fun. You can also conduct science experiments, go on nature walks, get involved in gardening projects, or art sessions in the backyard or local parks. The boys attend forest school once a week and really enjoy swinging, jumping, building dens, playing in mud and working on craft activities.
  7. Incorporate Music and Movement: Music, songs, and movement activities are so important for children as they make learning complex information really fun and easy to remember (think of times tables, poems, languages science information). A quick search online can yield so many results and helps to to enhance learning and energise the atmosphere. Create playlists with educational songs or encourage children to create their own music related to the topics they’re studying!
  8. Celebrate Achievements and Milestones: Recognising and celebrating our children’s achievements, progress, and efforts with praise, rewards, certificates, or special activities can make their learning experience fun. Positive recognition boosts motivation and fosters a sense of accomplishment. We use stickers, and an achievement “trophy” that they boys can earn when they go above and beyond to do a particular work without prompt.
  9. Encourage Collaboration and Teamwork: Providing opportunities for the children to work together on projects, to solve problems collaboratively, and to share their ideas and knowledge with one another is important when trying to build a fun community based environment. We have regular “sports days” in our garden which is so much fun. It gets very competitive which adds to my fun haha.
  10. Rotate Learning Centers: Set up different learning stations or centers with activities related to various subjects or skills. Rotate these centers periodically to keep the environment fresh and exciting. We all need change once in a while to freshen our minds and give us new inspiration. Children are no different. When we change up the space every now and again it invites new energy into activities, and I have found that engagement and focus is also improved.

I hope these tips and ideas have been helpful by incorporating these elements into your learning environment, you can create a space where children feel excited, motivated, and eager to explore and learn! Are there any other things that you do to make learning fun for your children?

5 Practical Ways To Be Content


As a Christian homeschooling mother, being content in raising my children and embracing our own unique family journey is essential if I am to nurture a joyful and fulfilling home environment, as well as be at peace personally. I’ll be honest- I am not always content, and I don’t always feel like being content. However I recognise that it is crucial to learn how to embrace contentment if I am going to thrive in this chapter and season of my life. Paul says in Philippians 4:11-13 “I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances”.

Finding contentment as a mother and woman is an area that we have to hold focus on because God has blessed us with so much, even when we are going through difficult seasons. I have found that when I shut my eyes and ears to the noise of the world and tune into my own life and the journey that God has me on, contentment grows in my heart. I am satisfied with what I have, who I am, and where I am going. Here are some practical steps that we can take to cultivate contentment and enjoyment, whatever season we find ourselves in.

1. Ground Ourselves in Faith

Our spiritual tanks run on empty, flashing red – a warning sign that if we do not fill up immediately, we will dry up, die out, and grow weary. The amount of time we invest into our spiritual lives is just not enough. We can never have too much of God. He is our anchor, foundation and hope. Yet if I am honest, with how busy my days are, I am often left feeling so tired physically tired that it is sometimes a challenge to reach towards things that will build me up in faith. Yet that is exactly where we need to be at all times during the day. If having lengthy moments to fill up your spiritual tank is just not possible and feels too overwhelming, then take it in bite sized portions.

Start each day with prayer and scripture reading for a few minutes as this will set the tone for the day. Listen to short podcasts, Youtube clips, audiobooks or songs throughout the day. All of these things help to keep our spiritual lives pumping as we face different things each day. Trusting God is believing that He loves us, He is good, He has the power to help us, He wants to help us, and He will help us. Settle your heart on this truth daily and you’ll soon realise contentment and gratitude growing within you.

2. Embrace Flexibility

This isn’t always easy but necessary because life is a journey filled with ups and downs, twists and turns. Embracing flexibility gives room for spontaneity. As a type A person, I don’t typically do well in this area as I enjoy structure and predictability. However, it is true that embracing flexibility helps us to let go of rigid expectations and enjoy the unique opportunities that arise each day.

So what are some practical ways to do this in order to be content? Well, in all your planning, don’t forget to build-in flexibility, allowing room for adjustments as needed. Secondly, mindfulness practices such as meditation on the Word or deep breathing helps us to stay focused on the present moment and reduces anxiety about the future. Varying our routines every now and then helps to introduce variety in our lives and helps us to become more comfortable with change.

3. Focus on Relationships

The backbone of society and family life is built upon the quality of relationships between us humans. One of the wonderful things that God has given us is the ability to form deep bonds that transcend time. Prioritising building strong relationships with our children, spouses and friends helps to create opportunities for meaningful connections which fill up our contentment bucket daily. It takes intentional work, but the output of this work truly enriches our lives.

We can build this area of our lives down by slowing down, and taking stock of the people in our lives. Write down a list of all these special people and what they mean to you and you’ll instantly realise how blessed you are. Then have a think about how you can increase or deepen your bond with them Some examples are quality time spent together, heartfelt conversations, and shared experiences. Investing in relationships fosters a sense of closeness and unity that enhances our journey in this life and if we can find our people and build consistent healthy interactions, we’ll add several more bricks to our house of contentment and gratitude.

4. Celebrate Progress, Not Perfection

One of the big causes of discontentment is when we are so laser focused on perfection, that it blinds us from seeing and appreciating our progress in life no matter how small. As mothers, we try to be conscious of this for our children, but not so much for ourselves. Celebrating progress rather than perfection is an important mindset shift that can lead to greater satisfaction and motivation in our lives. Remember that perfection is elusive and ever changing based upon our ever shifting goal posts. Here are some practical ways (bullet pointed) to celebrate your progress and build contentment in this area of your life.

  • Create a Success List: Maintain a list of your accomplishments and add to it regularly! Even the tiniest things… Review it periodically to remind yourself of how far you’ve come. It’s progress!
  • Celebrate Milestones: Celebrate reaching milestones with small rewards or activities you enjoy, such as a favorite meal, drink, walk, snack etc. It motivates our brain to keep going and keeps us encouraged.
  • Regular Reflection: Take time to reflect on your journey in a specific area of your life and the progress you’ve made. Consider what you’ve learned and how you’ve grown. This encourages gratitude.
  • Positive Self-Talk: Replace negative self-talk with positive affirmations that recognise your efforts and progress. It may feel difficult and strange but stick to it. Write it down if it helps and place the affirmations in a place you know you’ll see them everyday. Positive talk and practicing self compassion takes practice.
  • Forgive Mistakes: Accept that mistakes are part of the learning process and don’t dwell on them. Use them as opportunities for growth, and be grateful that you have had the opportunity to do better.

5. Practice Self-Care

Contentment can feel very difficult to reach for sometimes when we are simply burnt out or tired to the bone. Including personal renewal in our schedules helps to recharge and rejuvenate our minds, bodies, and spirit. Set aside time for activities that nourish your own soul, such as prayer, meditation, reading, or pursuing hobbies and interests. Taking care of yourself (even in small ways) allows you to show up fully present and engaged in your role- specifically for me as a homeschooling mother to three boys.

Self care and time for renewal looks different for us all, and the most important thing to remember is that you have to honour who you are and what fills your tank. By leaning into this authentically, you create and consistently build a foundation of well-being that supports a more content and fulfilling life.

Here are some Bible scriptures that I hope will encourage you on your journey of contentment.

Do Not Worry Matthew 6:25

Seek God First Matthew 6:32–33

I hope this has been helpful.

God Bless,

Alethea

9 must read books for Christian mothers

For Christian mums looking for inspiration, guidance, and spiritual nourishment! Whether you’re navigating the complexities of motherhood, seeking to deepen your faith, or simply craving moments of reflection and perspective in the midst of the demands of it all, I hope that these nine books will encourage you just as much as they’ve encouraged me! Each one offers a wealth of wisdom, practical advice, encouragement, and insight, reminding us of the profound significance of our role and the love and grace of Christ that sustains us on our journey.

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Risen Motherhood: Gospel hope for everyday moments

What I love the most about Risen Motherhood content is how they connect our faith with motherhood. It helps you to life up your eyes and perspective to see things from a Biblical worldview which is so helpful- a needed reminder! It’s not a ‘how to’ book for mothers, but an encouragement that everything we do is by God’s design and for his purposes. Nothing is too mundane or small in this season. <a href="http://<a target="_blank" href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Risen-Motherhood-Gospel-Everyday-Moments/dp/0736976221/ref=sr_1_1?crid=36R77O3G3K8CM&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.i1c1n54y9HgHyWdHTlKYFQIpWNnqTlIq6kHyftvbPXThy-Mliaz_jYRQtuR2_wRw1hErTal9_o7mP0IV3YngnRvLor77ky12mxNJjzJLDE1QjxL41YDDbNVi94or5sDoROOXKXhsqJB-xiA3Ee7o7v99j_p3AileJKkOUP-ChcZXh4IYGYei5nZaHqUV_FNsC1mwfCRSrj2V6Gy6RpvfuRPoQ5CCfGGPWAB-MZ_dGvk.GLcNGwmACLTwB_Mc_PVwgroKg3r4e7iR6G7NjGpL2i8&dib_tag=se&keywords=risen+motherhood&qid=1710657442&sprefix=risen+motherhood%252Caps%252C90&sr=8-1&_encoding=UTF8&tag=gracedforhome-21&linkCode=ur2&linkId=4e578b21670ccb6030b08b7fadbf720c&camp=1634&creative=6738">Get your copy

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Shepherding a child’s heart

The first parenting book that I read and it blew my mind away! The wisdom in this book is incredible and very convicting. Tedd Tripp really goes into detail on the importance of looking at the heart of our children and seeking to disciple the heart over correcting outward behaviour. It’s challenging, informative, direct and focuses on Biblical principles and practices.

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Memory Making Mom

If you are feeling overwhelmed with creating new and unique family traditions this book is really helpful in kickstarting it for you. There are so many ideas to bring joy and personlised experiences into your home which is something that all of us want to give to our children. I see it as part of our legacy building and what makes our family “us” so this book is a little gem!

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Awaking Wonder

I love Sally Clarkson and her vision and heart for home. She is an older much wiser and seasoned woman who comes along side you in her books to share the heart of God for our lives and it is such an encouragement and challenge to our hearts as mothers.

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Treasuring Christ

This is a really great practical book that helps us to keep our eyes on Christ in the midst of the busyness and chaotic moments in motherhood. Reading the book shook my preconceptions about the significance of hardship in motherhood, deepened my understanding of biblical teachings regarding trials, and reinforced the truth that contentment and joy can’t come from anything else but Christ.

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Sacred Parenting

It’s not your typical how-to guide, which is really refreshing considering the inundation of parenting manuals that are out there. What I love the most about this book is that it prompts us to reflect on the higher calling of nurturing children for the glory of God. It also gives a lot of practical and realistic tips that don’t feel so overwhelming to achieve.

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Desperate

For this review I’ll have to post the authors statement as it sums up the book perfectly.

Desperate is for those who love their children to the depths of their souls but who have also curled up under their covers, fighting back tears, and begging God for help. It’s for those who have ever wondered what happened to all their ideals for what having children would be like. For those who have ever felt like all the “experts” have clearly never had a child like theirs. For those who have prayed for a mentor. For those who ever felt lost and alone in motherhood.

In Desperate you will find the story of one young mother’s honest account of the desperate feelings experienced in motherhood and one experienced mentor’s realistic and gentle exhortations that were forged in the trenches of raising her own four children.

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Missional Motherhood

A great encouraging book helping us to know that in the midst of all the busyness, motherhood is anything but insignificant and I think it just hits this nail squarely on the head. It is too easy to wonder if anything we are doing is worthwhile because raising other human beings can be so taxing.

The book focuses on the Gospel and how this should shape our desires, and realities in motherhood. The bigger picture from a theological perspective.

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I hope you find these useful!

How to be a content mother

Contentment is a very big area of our lives and it really can affect our level of happiness and joy as mothers. It is such a nuanced and interesting topic that affects us all. This journey of motherhood that we are on is marked by profound love, joy, and sacrifice for our children, and as a Christian, I realise that my own contentment is ultimately rooted in the delicate dance between trusting in God’s providence, working diligently and purposefully, and having faith that God does, and can change my circumstances.

In the midst of this beautiful journey of raising my children, I sense another struggle within me which are feelings of “am I satisfied? Am I happy? How can I experience joy and fulfillment as I work hard to serve, love and be there for everyone else in my home?” These are searching questions and I ponder on them constantly because one thing that I am personally committed to, is being a happy and fulfilled woman and mother not only for my children, but for myself.

My contentment is often linked to my expectations of what I believe I should have, and where I believe I should be in life and I think part of what can create discontentment in motherhood, is dealing with the reality of limitations. When we become mothers, it’s inevitable to face certain limitations inherent to this role, because it is a distinctive journey unlike any other. We enter into a new season of life which requires a lot of shift and adjustment.

In our age of social media where curated images of perfection abound in all areas of life, it’s all too easy to fall into the trap of measuring our worth against carefully positioned and placed images and videos that display a standard and yardstick which we must all meet. While inspirational, we can find ourselves on a torturous cycle of constantly questioning our decisions, doubting our capabilities, and endlessly chasing after an idealised concept of motherhood that doesn’t truly exist- not 100% of the time anyway!

The arrival of our children brings countless blessings, but it also ushers in personal and relational (with our spouses) challenges that can test even the most resilient of us. Overnight, our lives change and our days become filled with endless demands, sleepless nights, and a constant juggling act to balance the needs of our children with our own desires and aspirations. How can we feel as though we are ok and not forgotten and unseen in the midst of it all? It’s a tough one that requires practical application grounded in scriptural direction.

Contentment and limitations

Mother lifting baby up

Very real and normal limitations to our lives and lifestyles will look different for each mother and I am learning that in order to cultivate contentment well, and find joy, I have to (by faith) adjust my expectations – bend them if you will to my current limitations. High expectations are good, and needed in some areas of our lives as they drive us forward to achieve goals, however I have experienced that my unmovable stance when it comes to my expectations being met in a very specific way actually creates overwhelm for me because it collides head on with my reality which in most cases is different. This then leaves me either frustrated or paralysed and feeling like I am suffocating under it all.

So what can we do? Adjusting our expectations to our limitations can help produce thankfulness, progress and good fruit in our hearts and lives. This is where the faith aspect comes in because it requires a willingness to surrender our desires and expectations to God, trusting that His plans for our lives—and the lives of our children—are far greater than we could ever imagine (Jeremiah 29:11). We live in a fast paced all or nothing world where passionately pursuing our own fulfillment is the norm, so anything that appears to threaten this is seen as a negative thing, even if it’s our own children.

Reconciling our expectations with the reality of our current lives is a great challenge that we’ll always have to find balance with, but in doing this well, I believe that we’ll be able to enjoy and accept the current season for what it is- good and bad while having hope toward something different in the future.

Many of us experience the mourning of our freedom and opportunities when we become mums. The pressure to “have it all” and continue exceling in every aspect of our lives—career, family, relationships—can weigh heavily on our shoulders, leaving us feeling like we are perpetually missing the mark. Natural comparison to other mums who seem to have it all figured out can increase our feelings of discontentment, frustration and disappointment.

Either your a boss babe that can do it all, a stay at home mother who has opted out of the pursuit of career and financial rewards, or a mixture of both. Either way, the issue of contentment comes up because we are women, a lot of us are very capable, and we want to feel as though our output in life matches with the financial reward and our inherent sense of worth.

Even though our once familiar routines become disrupted, and our priorities shift, adjusting our expectations to our limitations can help to shift our focus from impossibility to possibility which is so encouraging! I’ll give two examples from my life.

My personal experience: two examples

I really enjoy exercising, and before I had children, I had the freedom to workout without interruption, I could go to gym classes, or use the gym if I wanted to. My  life in this season looks very different as I have had to cancel my gym membership and workout from home. In the beginning I absolutely hated it and felt resentful towards the fact that I couldn’t have my time the way I wanted to.

I felt very annoyed for a good few months. Why should I have to miss out on what is really important to me? I don’t enjoy working out at home at all and enjoyed the change of environment and focus at the gym. Well I have had to adjust my expectation to this limitation and instead of struggling against it, I have had to bend my will (painfully on a lot of days) to my reality, and redirect my thoughts to see the opportunity of how I can make good with what I can do now. I now workout early in the mornings when the boys are asleep, and I have actually grown to enjoy it. Some times they wake up, and when they do they play around me.

I am always having to train my mind from seeing the lack, to being thankful that I can still have time and opportunity to do something. If this should change in the future, I’ll gladly take it (!!) but for now, this will do and in accepting it as a good thing, good fruit is growing from it.

Another area is in the area of teaching the boys our native language (Twi). This has been a desire of mine since we got married 8 years ago. My husband speaks it fluently, but what is my limitation? I don’t. It didn’t stop me from having very high expectations for myself and my children though and I have wanted them to learn to speak and understand from an early age. As you can imagine this has brought a lot of frustration and feelings of failure as I am no where near the goal of speaking it fluently and passing it down to the boys.

Then I realised that the high expectation was a huge burden that was paralysing me from moving forward. The mountain just felt so huge. So I had to adjust my expectations to my reality by deciding that if all I can do to encourage our culture is work with the boys on a few words etc, translating for them (because I understand the language), songs, and stories, it is still a great seed sowing investment. They may not grow up speaking fluently, but they will still know about their heritage and hopefully have an appreciation and love for it, which is ultimately what we want! Settling my heart in this has brought the joy back in teaching them Twi.

Hope in finding contentment

Mother hugging baby

Amidst the challenges that we face, there is hope for our journeys. Finding contentment after motherhood can feel like this grand finish line that we all need to reach, but I think it’s actually something that God wants us to diligently embrace while we are on the journey. That’s when our eyes and heart open up to see His goodness and faithfulness to us as we grow and encounter new and different life experiences. Acknowledging and accepting the inherent challenges of motherhood can co- exist with immeasurable joy and fulfillment.

We have the liberty to explore our interests and passions, nurture relationships, take time to pour into ourselves with the things we enjoy and so much more within motherhood because we have this new role that propels us forward into a stronger version of ourselves daily. We just have to take our time, breathe and trust that as long as we maintain a healthy balance, perspective and level of discipline, we can attain a lot of our goals. It may just look different to how we want to do it!

Finding contentment in motherhood requires a shift in our mindset which is a conscious choice to embrace the beauty and imperfection of our lives. Contentment is not static- a do once and finish with it type of thing. It is meant to be a daily pursuit (and let’s be real, fight sometimes) to drink from the fresh flowing water of grace available to us each day as we ask God to renew our minds, strengthen us, help us live purposeful and disciplined lives, and above all to anchor our joy, worth and value in Him and not in the world.

Here are two scriptures which I hope will encourage you in this area of contentment.

Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content: I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

Philippians 4:11- 13

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

Matthew 11:28-30

How do you deal with cultivating contentment in your own life?

Awaking wonder in the hearts of my boys

My boys by nature are already bent towards wonder. If they aren’t jumping off furniture imagining that they are flying superhero agents sent to rescue the world, they are completely immersed in the land of all things soil, mud and water as they dig to find treasure, or create foundations to build forts, castles and temples!

There is a part of us that has a longing. A deep well within us that needs filing with the fullness of God, but If I am honest, the thought of awaking wonder in the hearts of my boys feels like an intimidating prospect because there is a huge part of me that feels stuck when I consider being this other version of myself who is free spirited and sees and feels all the beauty around me.

It feels hard because I have been trained into a system that values results, efficiency, competitive edge, hurriedness over a slower more savored pace of life. I suppose the title of this blog post should be “how to awaken wonder in my own heart”.

My boys by nature are already bent towards wonder. If they aren’t jumping off furniture imagining that they are flying superhero agents sent to rescue the world, they are completely immersed in the land of all things soil, mud and water as they dig to find treasure, or create foundations to build forts, castles and temples. I honestly look at them most times in amazement. We absolutely have hunters, wrestlers, producers and conquerors in our midst! They are so cool and remind me that we have an innate pull within us to bring forth creativity in our own unique way.

I have to be honest also, that most of the time, I am also thinking “what on earth…” because I just feel so far removed from the way a boys brain is wired to work! Yet God has given me this portion. The three most wonderful boys to nurture, disciple and raise into wonderful men who reflect the image of God.

When I think of awakening wonder in the hearts of these souls, I think about leaving a legacy of hearts that beat after the unseen things of this world, while appreciating the very things that anchor us in real relationship, community and life. I think of hearts that beat strongly and thirst for knowledge in real tangible ways, hearts that feel full and satisfied with the precious simplicities of life that we are so unfamiliar with. Awaking wonder to me is about loving and nurturing each boy individually so that they grow roots in who they are without ever feeling the need to compete with others. To feel wholeheartedly secure in Christ and in your place in this world is probably the most anchoring experience that we can desire.

My view of education is changing and I never ever thought that I would experience this! I see now that it isn’t linear. The path to “success” and fulfillment isn’t just one way that we all have to walk and I need them to know this. There is so much wonder, so much to ponder on, so much to explore and to wrestle with in this rich life and I really want them to have this. Academic success is important, but I believe that a life undergirded by faith and inner character is more of a blessing- brings forth more of a fruitful and full life.

I want them to be free enough in their minds to build a deeply fun life giving enough time for their hearts to taste and see all that life has to offer. Seeking after it. Finding wonder and inspiration that organically and authentically propels them forward to their next learning adventure- because it truly never stops.

God bless,

Alethea

A Christian Mother’s Homeschooling Journey with Her Boys: routine and resources!

Welcome to a glimpse of a typical day homeschooling our three boys who are ages 5, 3 and 1. Each day looks a little different, but I have a structure which I pull from during different parts of our day. It helps me to be as consistent as possible while balancing my other responsibilities as a home maker. Join me as I share our routine and some resources that have worked well for us. This is a journey that I want to be marked by fun, creativity, and paersonalised learning/activities. I’ll share what I do in my own personal routine which helps me to stay focused, and on top of things as much as possible.


The start of our day:

8:00 AM – 9:00 AM: An ease into the day

  • Getting dressed, breakfast time, and quick wash up time.
  • Set intentions for the day

9:30 AM – 10:00 AM: Praise and worship/Bible reading

  • We start with praise and worship (dance or fitness on Youtube)
  • Bible reading time

The boys have a lot of energy in the morning and I usually do not so what helps me to cope well with this is praise and worship. We watch a few videos on Youtube which they love to sing and dance along to. It’s a great way to learn new songs, and it helps to bring focus to our minds for the day. Our Bible reading time at this age is not very long and it is all story based. Our mid-morning session is dedicated to Bible study, exploring the stories of faith and lessons they hold for our lives. We have discussions around the story. This is for about 10 minutes.

Resources we love:

Bible: Illustrated Childrens Bible : North Parade Publishing: Amazon.co.uk: Books

Our favourite Youtube channel: (2) Listener Kids – YouTube


10:00-10:30 Character studies:

  • Conversation and activity around a character that I am teaching them.
  • Take short breaks as needed.

Character studies is an area that I am really passionate about and I really try to be consistent in working on activities and setting time aside to have conversations about this with the boys. I like to start the day with character studies because I want it to frame the day as we play and interact with each other. This works really well for us as they remember what we discuss and often pull each other up if they aren’t displaying the particular trait that we discussed in the morning!


Snack time and break

10:30 AM – 11:00 AM:

  • The boys help put their snack plate together- which they love to be involved with!
  • While they eat, they can play or draw etc. I take the youngest for his nap.

Start a few core subjects

11:00 AM – 11:30 AM:

  • 1 page of penmanship each, 1 page of phonics each
  • Older boy works on 1 page of sudoku
  • 1 page of maths/numbers (occasionally)

At this age through trial an error I have discovered that my boys cannot contain too much formal sit down work. What has helped a great deal is to have them work together with myself for a maximum of 5-10 minutes. We work on one page of penmanship, and one page of phonics/reading for the day. By breaking this down into bitesized lessons I have found that they are so receptive and enthusiastic to work. I get just enough out of the experience with them before their minds move onto something else! At this stage it is just enough and the plan is to build on this little by little without them noticing. My oldest enjoys Sudoku so to develop that a little we have him work on 1 puzzle a day which he is fine with.

Resources we love:

Sudoku book: Sudoku For Kids: Beginner Sudoku Puzzles | Puzzles ages 4-8 | Beginner to Medium Level Puzzles | 4×4 Sudoku Puzzles : Two Cubs Press: Amazon.co.uk: Books

Penmanship books: KS1 English Year 1 Handwriting Targeted Practice Book (CGP Year 1 English) : CGP Books, CGP Books: Amazon.co.uk: Books

Phonics and reading books: Learn to Read Activity Book: 101 Fun Lessons to Teach Your Child to Read : Braun, Hannah: Amazon.co.uk: Books


Lunch and Break

11:30 AM – 13:30 PM:

  • Enjoy lunch.
  • Take a break for relaxation, creativity, or personal interests.
  • I’ll prep for our outdoor adventure or afternoon extra curricular activity

We take frequent breaks throughout the morning as I have found that this helps the boys to focus more and not feel too overwhelmed. It also helps me to use a few minutes here and there to reset the house throughout the morning. After lunch they have free time, the youngest is awake from his nap and I prepare for our afternoon trip outside of the house.

13:30 PM – 16:30 PM: Afternoon fun

  • Gymnastics or swimming or park fun

This is a time for the boys to use their bodies in physical activity which they absolutely love! it’s so nice to see them learning new skills but also being in a space where they can just be so physical- because it’s truly what they need.

17:00 Dinner time

More things that we love to do

These things are woven into our day based upon the flow of and tone of the day.

  • We love all things hands on so we are often working on puzzles, doing science experiments, playing with playdoh, drawing and building lego cities, magnatile castles and marble runs, and building forts and hotels!
  • We are part of a homeschooling community which we attend once a week. This is focused on teaching geography for this current season. It’s great for the social interaction and learning.
  • We watch educational YouTube videos. I haven’t ventured into the area of using apps just yet because they love TV already! I want to pace it out as our digital age has opened up a world of resources at our fingertips. I am very keen on fostering and encouraging a love of learning traditionally (e.g. loving books, words, numbers, pen and paper, play etc) as they all involve an active engagement of the mind. I want that to form the building blocks on which they love learning rather than the razz and dazzle of a digital device. There will be a place for it at some point and we are just trying to navigate when the right time for that will be.
  • We have a lot of books as I try to build up a beautiful library for the boys so we dip in and out of different topics such as history, science and general information throughout the day. Read aloud time is enjoyed by us all.
  • To aide in my mission of encouraging a love of books, we go to the library once a week. This is cemented in our routine.
  • Twi learning!

Resources we love:

Science: UNGLINGA 100+ Science Lab Experiments Kit for Kids, STEM Activities Educational Scientist Toys Gifts Chemistry Set, Play Sand, Gemstone Dig, Volcano, Glowing Worms, Fizzy Reaction : Amazon.co.uk: Toys & Games

Books: Usborne Look Inside Our world 6 Books Collection Pack Set ( Seas and Oceans, Nature,Our World,Animal Homes,Jungle,Space): Amazon.co.uk: Usborne: 9789526530994: Books

Twi learning: Twi/african Language Bi-lingual Learning Flashcards, Beginners, Kids & Adults, Conversation Cards, Must Know Words and Phrases 27 Cards – Etsy UK


The above schedule is what a typical day looks like for us at this age and stage of our home education journey. I am learning that in order to enjoy the day and my children, I need to be flexible and anticipate that needs, interests, moods and life can shift our routine at any moment! I am not bound to the time slots. They simply serve as a framework for me as I aim to set a rhythm for our days.

If you’re considering homeschooling, remember that each journey is unique, and the key is to embrace the freedom it offers while crafting an educational experience that resonates with your family’s values and aspirations. If you are at the beginning stage, there are beginner guides that can help launch you into this new world.


Mama’s thoughts:

This is hard and holy work. As I navigate the ebb and flow of homeschooling, I’m continually reminded of the immense privilege it is to shape my childrens’ educational journey. Through flexibility, creativity, and a deep commitment to personalized learning, our homeschool routine becomes a dynamic tapestry of exploration and growth.

Homeschooling, for us, is not just about academics; it’s a journey of faith, love, and discovering the wonders of God’s creation together.

I have an opportunity to build a specific type of legacy and that just blows my mind. I set an atmosphere and have been given the capacity to love, be loved and launch something unique in my sons. Good work can turn into great work and great work turns into legacy which will outlive me. My heart is in this. I am graced for this.

Homeschooling 3 Boys: Routine and Resources!

Welcome to a glimpse of a typical day homeschooling our three boys who are ages 5, 3 and 1. Each day looks a little different, but I have a structure which I pull from during different parts of our day. It helps me to be as consistent as possible while balancing my other responsibilities as a home maker. Join me as I share our routine and some resources that have worked well for us. This is a journey that I want to be marked by fun, creativity, and personalised learning/activities. I’ll share what I do in my own personal routine which helps me to stay focused, and on top of things as much as possible.

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The start of our day:

8:00 AM – 9:00 AM: An ease into the day

  • Getting dressed, breakfast time, and quick wash up time.
  • Set intentions for the day

9:30 AM – 10:00 AM: Praise and worship/Bible reading

  • We start with praise and worship (dance or fitness on Youtube)
  • Bible reading time

The boys have a lot of energy in the morning and I usually do not so what helps me to cope well with this is praise and worship. We watch a few videos on Youtube which they love to sing and dance along to. It’s a great way to learn new songs, and it helps to bring focus to our minds for the day. Our Bible reading time at this age is not very long and it is all story based. Our mid-morning session is dedicated to Bible study, exploring the stories of faith and lessons they hold for our lives. We have discussions around the story. This is for about 10 minutes.

Resources we love:

Bible: Illustrated Childrens Bible : North Parade Publishing: Amazon.co.uk: Books

Our favourite Youtube channel: (2) Listener Kids – YouTube


10:00-10:30 Character studies:

  • Conversation and activity around a character that I am teaching them.
  • Take short breaks as needed.

Character studies is an area that I am really passionate about and I really try to be consistent in working on activities and setting time aside to have conversations about this with the boys. I like to start the day with character studies because I want it to frame the day as we play and interact with each other. This works really well for us as they remember what we discuss and often pull each other up if they aren’t displaying the particular trait that we discussed in the morning!


Snack time and break

10:30 AM – 11:00 AM:

  • The boys help put their snack plate together- which they love to be involved with!
  • While they eat, they can play or draw etc. I take the youngest for his nap.

Start a few core subjects

11:00 AM – 11:30 AM:

  • 1 page of penmanship each, 1 page of phonics each
  • Older boy works on 1 page of sudoku
  • 1 page of maths/numbers (occasionally)

At this age through trial an error I have discovered that my boys cannot contain too much formal sit down work. What has helped a great deal is to have them work together with myself for a maximum of 5-10 minutes. We work on one page of penmanship, and one page of phonics/reading for the day. By breaking this down into bitesized lessons I have found that they are so receptive and enthusiastic to work. I get just enough out of the experience with them before their minds move onto something else! At this stage it is just enough and the plan is to build on this little by little without them noticing. My oldest enjoys Sudoku so to develop that a little we have him work on 1 puzzle a day which he is fine with.

Resources we love:

Sudoku book: Sudoku For Kids: Beginner Sudoku Puzzles | Puzzles ages 4-8 | Beginner to Medium Level Puzzles | 4×4 Sudoku Puzzles : Two Cubs Press: Amazon.co.uk: Books

Penmanship books: KS1 English Year 1 Handwriting Targeted Practice Book (CGP Year 1 English) : CGP Books, CGP Books: Amazon.co.uk: Books

Phonics and reading books: Learn to Read Activity Book: 101 Fun Lessons to Teach Your Child to Read : Braun, Hannah: Amazon.co.uk: Books


Lunch and Break

11:30 AM – 13:30 PM:

  • Enjoy lunch.
  • Take a break for relaxation, creativity, or personal interests.
  • I’ll prep for our outdoor adventure or afternoon extra curricular activity

We take frequent breaks throughout the morning as I have found that this helps the boys to focus more and not feel too overwhelmed. It also helps me to use a few minutes here and there to reset the house throughout the morning. After lunch they have free time, the youngest is awake from his nap and I prepare for our afternoon trip outside of the house.

13:30 PM – 16:30 PM: Afternoon fun

  • Gymnastics or swimming or park fun

This is a time for the boys to use their bodies in physical activity which they absolutely love! it’s so nice to see them learning new skills but also being in a space where they can just be so physical- because it’s truly what they need.

17:00 Dinner time

More things that we love to do

These things are woven into our day based upon the flow of and tone of the day.

  • We love all things hands on so we are often working on puzzles, doing science experiments, playing with playdoh, drawing and building lego cities, magnatile castles and marble runs, and building forts and hotels!
  • We are part of a homeschooling community which we attend once a week. This is focused on teaching geography for this current season. It’s great for the social interaction and learning.
  • We watch educational YouTube videos. I haven’t ventured into the area of using apps just yet because they love TV already! I want to pace it out as our digital age has opened up a world of resources at our fingertips. I am very keen on fostering and encouraging a love of learning traditionally (e.g. loving books, words, numbers, pen and paper, play etc) as they all involve an active engagement of the mind. I want that to form the building blocks on which they love learning rather than the razz and dazzle of a digital device. There will be a place for it at some point and we are just trying to navigate when the right time for that will be.
  • We have a lot of books as I try to build up a beautiful library for the boys so we dip in and out of different topics such as history, science and general information throughout the day. Read aloud time is enjoyed by us all.
  • To aide in my mission of encouraging a love of books, we go to the library once a week. This is cemented in our routine.
  • Twi learning!

Resources we love:

Science: UNGLINGA 100+ Science Lab Experiments Kit for Kids, STEM Activities Educational Scientist Toys Gifts Chemistry Set, Play Sand, Gemstone Dig, Volcano, Glowing Worms, Fizzy Reaction : Amazon.co.uk: Toys & Games

Books: Usborne Look Inside Our world 6 Books Collection Pack Set ( Seas and Oceans, Nature,Our World,Animal Homes,Jungle,Space): Amazon.co.uk: Usborne: 9789526530994: Books

Twi learning: Twi/african Language Bi-lingual Learning Flashcards, Beginners, Kids & Adults, Conversation Cards, Must Know Words and Phrases 27 Cards – Etsy UK


The above schedule is what a typical day looks like for us at this age and stage of our home education journey. I am learning that in order to enjoy the day and my children, I need to be flexible and anticipate that needs, interests, moods and life can shift our routine at any moment! I am not bound to the time slots. They simply serve as a framework for me as I aim to set a rhythm for our days.

If you’re considering homeschooling, remember that each journey is unique, and the key is to embrace the freedom it offers while crafting an educational experience that resonates with your family’s values and aspirations. If you are at the beginning stage, there are beginner guides that can help launch you into this new world.


Mama’s thoughts:

This is hard and holy work. As I navigate the ebb and flow of homeschooling, I’m continually reminded of the immense privilege it is to shape my childrens’ educational journey. Through flexibility, creativity, and a deep commitment to personalized learning, our homeschool routine becomes a dynamic tapestry of exploration and growth.

Homeschooling, for us, is not just about academics; it’s a journey of faith, love, and discovering the wonders of God’s creation together.

I have an opportunity to build a specific type of legacy and that just blows my mind. I set an atmosphere and have been given the capacity to love, be loved and launch something unique in my sons. Good work can turn into great work and great work turns into legacy which will outlive me. My heart is in this. I am graced for this.

Why Graced for Home?

I, like many women had only one goal in mind as I grew up. Work hard to be competitive in the market place. The best in my field. Get that competitive edge so that I could stand out and land the high paying job with an incredible benefits package. I knew that I wanted to become a mother one day because it was the other natural path that I desired but my entire focus was on career and making money. I was and still am an ambitious, and highly capable and productive woman with several dreams and abilities.

However things started to change for me when I left my first very good corporate job to work part time for my church at that time. I was newly married and I realised that a huge part of me also had a heart for home. I am incredibly passionate about building with my own tribe, having time to intentionally create a life of joy, adventure and success according to what it means to our unique family. I wanted to learn how to be this way.

That’s also when I felt the tension between the two. Seasonally, I came to realise that I couldn’t have the two at the same time. Yet the pull for home became intensely strong when I had my first son. Seeing that new life that my husband and I co created shifted my perspective on life and motherhood entirely.

Choosing to walk confidently in Gods design requires a step of faith- a step away from the marketplace of activities and into the mummy place of the home, which is filled with beauty, love, creativity, purpose and peace”. Sally Clarkson

Yet I also realised that I naturally was entering into motherhood with so much insecurity, fear and confusion regarding my personal role and ability. I wasn’t confident in so many areas, and yet I still had a strong heart to be based from home with my child and now children.

The desire for this blog really is to;

  • Document my personal journey as a Christian woman and mother
  • To document and encourage others on the journey of raising boys
  • I have truly felt afraid to lean into this new version of myself because in alot of ways it confirms the new journey that I am on and I have never considered myself living this- and putting it out there for the world to see. I still coming to terms with a lot of things everyday! Yet I have accepted that this is the most authentic way that I-Alethea can express myself. This is what God has given to me and I am compelled towards it. Especially as I desire to teach my children to keep their hearts open to who God has called them to be and lean into their natural gifts. I have to model this and can’t run away from it.
  • It is making me a better mother.
  • To encourage Christian mothers, and specifically stay at home mothers that we can absolutely do this and grow in confidence managing the home, loving and nurturing our children, and discovering new things within ourselves- our skills etc and still thrive beautifully as individuals. Staying at home does not have to be filled with insecurities.
  • Share my journey of home education and encouraging mothers in this area too, sharing some resources that I make for my children to learn with.

I hope you’ll journey along with me x

A vision for home

A place for belonging and becoming is important to this mama. Where hearts find a home to discover, test their limits, dream and hope. Home is base. The place intentionally and carefully built to serve us all. A place of refuge when we need shelter and protection from the harsh winds of the outside world, a safe launching pad that encourages us to try, to take the steps needed to develop skills and ideas, and the heartbeat of all things discipleship, training and refining.

When I think about my home, I envision warmth. Sacred and natural deeply rooted rhythms and traditions that have been intentionally repeated so much that they lead our days into an ever deeper connection with each other, the world around us and God. To build deep, strong foundations takes time and considerable effort. To establish, set in, and anchor hearts to all that is good and wonderful takes a mighty work of the Holy Spirit to come alongside my daily efforts.

How I long for my boys to know the powerful, soul grounding witness of the Lord in their hearts! It is my prayer for them daily. My hope and desire is that our home will be a place where miracles upon miracles are witnessed in all of our lives. May it stand as a monument testifying to the goodness and faithfulness of God to our lives.

My vision for my home is that it would be filled with love, laughter and joy. A space where learning is not only expected, but inwardly pursued, cherished, and evolving as we all change and grow. A place of cultivation rings strong in my heart. The tiling, preparing, and nurture of the souls that live under my roof is a humbling magnificent job that I know I am called to. May God give me the grace and capacity to carry this for my boys.

A place to be. To know without a doubt that they belong, and that daddy and I are committed to their becoming. What holy work!

My boys are currently 5, 3 and 1 and most days, in the chaos and busyness of caring for very young children, this ideal can feel very far away- like an unrealistic and impossible dream. However it echoes so loudly in my heart and I just cannot ignore it. Living with my children and being with them each day is quite an intimate reality to live.

We eat together, rest together, learn together, play, adventure and pray together each and everyday. We frustrate one another, quarrel, love and forgive. It’s all encompassing. A whole life. One that I am incredibly grateful for. I hope to revisit this post in a few years time to reflect on how my thoughts and desires have evolved.

Through [skillful and godly] wisdom a house [a life, a home, a family] is built, And by understanding it is established [on a sound and good foundation], And by knowledge its rooms are filled With all precious and pleasant riches. Proverbs 24:3-4 (AMP)