If homeschooling has you feeling depressed or like you’re failing, please know you’re not the only one. So many parents quietly carry those feelings, even while pouring their hearts into teaching at home.
I almost had a crash recently just because of pure exhaustion and dealing with changing behaviour from one of my boys.
Homeschooling is beautiful, but it can also feel like an endless weight. We are the teacher, the parent, the organiser, the encourager — sometimes it feels like too many hats on one head. And when the day doesn’t go as planned, it’s easy to believe the lie that you’re not enough.
But here’s the truth: you are not failing. The very fact that you care this much already means you’re showing up in the most important way.
If your heart feels heavy and you are flat out exhausted, here are a few gentle reminders from my heart to yours:
Keep it simple– Learning doesn’t have to look like a perfectly structured school day. Reading stories together, cooking a meal, going on a walk, or even long conversations all count as rich learning. Our children are always absorbing.
Let go of comparison– It’s so tempting to measure ourselves against polished blogs, Instagram accounts, or even traditional schools. But homeschooling isn’t about recreating the classroom. It’s about creating a space where our children can thrive in our family’s way.
Find your people– Homeschooling can feel isolating. Most days, it’s just us and our children in all things. So whether it’s a local co-op, a Facebook group, or a few trusted friends, connecting with others who “get it” can lift so much weight off our shoulders. Sometimes just hearing “me too” makes things lighter.
Take care of you, too- It’s easy to burn out when all your energy goes into teaching. Make time — even small moments — for things that recharge you. We can’t pour from an empty cup. A quiet walk, a favourite tea, a few minutes of journaling, a warm shower, and chat to a trusted friend— can help us feel more like ourselves.
Ask for support when you need it– If your feelings of sadness or failure don’t lift, reaching out to a counselor or doctor can make a world of difference. Getting help is not weakness; it’s strength.
Low-effort homeschooling hacks
I’ve thought of a few “low-effort homeschooling hacks” — ways to give our children meaningful learning while taking pressure off ourselves when things feel heavy.
1. Audiobooks = built-in teacher. Pop on an audiobook during meals, car rides, or quiet time. Our children absorb so much just by listening — vocabulary, storytelling, history, even accents. (Bonus: you get a little break.)
2. Documentaries & educational shows count. Sometimes we feel guilty about screen time, but there’s no rule that says learning can’t happen through TV. Nature documentaries, history series, cooking shows, even YouTube channels can spark amazing conversations, learning and curiosity.
3. Turn everyday life into lessons. Cooking = maths (fractions, measurements), science (how heat changes things), and life skills. Grocery shopping = budgeting and planning. Nature walks = biology. We are always teaching way more than we realise.
4. Lean on online resources. Free platforms like Khan Academy, Crash Course Kids, or even local library apps can take the teaching role for a while. We don’t have to reinvent the wheel.
5. Interest-led “unit studies.” Instead of following a rigid schedule, pick something your child is already curious about (dinosaurs, space, baking, bugs) and weave lessons around it. Read a book, watch a video, do a craft — done! Children learn best when they’re interested.
6. Outsource where you can. Co-ops, community classes, or even a trusted family member teaching a skill can give you breathing room. You don’t have to be the expert in every subject.
7. Embrace “slow days.” Not every day has to be full of worksheets and structured lessons. Sometimes a day of reading, drawing, building Legos, or just talking counts just as much as the busy days.
On the really heavy and exhausting days, I remind myself that the secret to homeschooling is that it doesn’t have to look like school at home. The most powerful thing our children gain is the time, attention, and love that I am giving them.
Nurturing my boys’ hearts is one of the most important parts of my role as their mother. As a homeschooling mum of three boys, my husband and I have the privilege of being with them daily, shaping their character and guiding them toward Christ and into being strong boys and eventually men.
Homeschooling gives us a beautiful window of time and influence to not only teach academics, but to shepherd the hearts of our sons with intention. I always remind myself that It’s not just about teaching maths and reading—it’s about helping them develop a heart that seeks after God, is resilient, loves others well, and stands firm in the Christian faith. In a world that will constantly try to define them by achievements and success, I want them to know that their true worth is found in being sons of the true King.
Seeing their hearts
When we started our homeschool journey I was so geared toward only building them up academically, but I very quickly realised that in order to build a meaningful learning experience for them, I would need to win their hearts over with love, friendship and trust. Building a relationship with each boy where I do my best to see them for their individual strengths and personalities would help strengthen their sense of safety and confidence. It isn’t easy, because most of our days are quite loud and feel chaotic, and so the last thing I want to do is notice and compliment all the great and fun things about them (just being honest!) It’s a discipline that I am working on being more intentional in.
It’s also really easy to focus on correcting behaviour all the time, but true growth happens when we understand the heart behind it. When a boy is acting out or withdrawing, it’s often a signal of something deeper—confusion, frustration, or even a need for connection. Being intentional in this area for me means, trying my best to remember to pause, ask questions, and listen with grace.
“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” – Proverbs 15:1
Grace-based correction—rooted in relationship—helps a boy know that he’s loved, even when he makes mistakes.
Encouraging emotional honesty and empathy
Many boys are naturally active, physical learners, but they also carry deep emotions—sometimes masked by noise or movement. We’ve had to learn to give our sons language for their feelings. This helps them to communicate in a more self controlled way when they are feeling an emotion.
Creating an atmosphere of love and grace at home is also essential. I want my boys to know that our home is a safe place where they can be vulnerable, share their fears, and ask hard questions. I remind them that no mistake is too big for God’s grace and that nothing they do can separate them from His love—or mine. By showing them unconditional love, I hope to give them a glimpse of the immeasurable love of their Heavenly Father.
Conversations
Intentional conversations are another way I nurture their hearts. Whether it’s around the dinner table, during a car ride, or at bedtime, I try to engage their minds and hearts with meaningful discussions. We talk about faith, courage, kindness, and even the struggles they face, or anything random that may come to mind. I want them to know that their thoughts and feelings matter, and more importantly, that God cares about every detail of their lives.
Life skills
In raising boys, we’re not just preparing them for independence—we’re shaping their character and hearts for the life God is calling them to live. Teaching life skills within the rhythm of home and homeschool life is a sacred opportunity: a chance to model servant leadership, responsibility, and integrity. The boys are involved with learning to cook, tidying the garden and house, caring for each other and discussing life matters. As we teach our sons to work with their hands and think with wisdom, our desire and prayer is that it will help them grow into men who are not only capable but compassionate—anchored in faith, and willing to serve and work hard.
Service
Encouraging them to serve others is another way to shape their hearts for Christ. I remind them that true strength is found in humility and that leadership comes through service. Whether it’s helping a younger sibling, assisting a friend, or participating at church, I want them to experience the joy that comes from putting others before themselves. Jesus was the ultimate servant, and I pray my boys will follow in His footsteps.
Above all, I entrust their hearts to the Lord. I can do my best to teach, guide, and love them, but ultimately, their walk with God is their own. My prayer is that they will grow into men who love Jesus deeply, stand firm in truth, and live with integrity. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” That is my hope and prayer for my boys—that as they journey through life, their hearts will grow to be steadfast in Christ.
Raising confident and resilient boys in today’s world is challenging, unpredictable, full of constant adjustments, chaotic, downright exhausting, deeply fulfilling, messy and full of lots of teaching moments. As a homeschooling mum to three boys who are still babies to me (6,4 and 2 years) I am slowly learning that raising strong, capable young boys into men has become one of our aims. This isn’t about giving them an ego boost or bubble-wrapping them from failure, but about teaching them how to handle themselves when life’s inevitable bumps occur, and to deal with imperfections and bruises with grace, grit, and from a strong foundation in Christ.
Perseverance
One of the first and constant lessons that we are currently working on, is that failure and imperfection isn’t the enemy. When they get answers wrong, make a mistake or do something imperfectly, their natural response is to shut down, give up or walk away in tears because of the feelings of frustration and disappointment. In our home, my husband and I are consistent in pushing back against this and communicating to them that we celebrate mistakes (sometimes with a little treat) because they are an opportunity for us to learn and grow stronger.
When my first born son struggles with a concept during our learning time, or he colours out of the line during art time, we respond with enthusiasm because we have a chance to try again, and sometimes that is what life gives us- a chance to try again. We encourage him to know that it is ok to feel what he is feeling, but that he should never quit on himself. Resilience isn’t about never falling down; it’s about getting back up, dusting off the sawdust, and trusting that God will guide and strengthen us as we try again.
Confidence, too, is something that we are nurturing. As our boys are very young, we offer this through constant praise the majority of the time because I recognise that our hearts need to know that we are seen by those closest to us, and as their mama, it is my joy to let them know that I see them, love them, celebrate and affirm them.
There are moments when we explain that as they grow, their confidence wont come from constant praise but from real accomplishments and faith in God’s plan. So we do occasionally let them struggle and push through math problems, writing that tricky word for what feels like the hundredth time, and learning how to work together to serve one another during meal times (putting cutlery out, and setting the table). When they achieve something after working for it, the confidence sticks because they know they earned it through perseverance and God’s strength.
Service unto each other and strangers
My boys are very visual, and I quickly learnt that in order to capture their attention and imagination, it would be very helpful to give them a vision of the kind of boy and man that God is helping them to become day by day.
We usually say something along the lines of:
“God has created you for a purpose, and no challenge is too big when you walk in His strength. Keep trusting Him, keep learning, and keep growing into the man He is shaping you to be.“
“You are a warrior for Christ, and true strength comes from faith, kindness, and perseverance. No matter what happens, remember that God is always with you, guiding your steps.”
“When you do hard things, God is helping you grow stronger and stronger”.
We are all naturally self centered, and children demonstrate that to the highest degree because they are children(!), have constant legitimate needs and are under developed in their understanding, maturity and expression of their needs.
Another one of the areas that I am working on when it comes to raising resilient sons is teaching them to serve each other and other people. Serving each other doesn’t always feel pleasant because they bicker, fight and compete against one another, but by learning the discipline of service to one another, they fulfill a really important goal of our family which is to love and work together as one in our home.
When they understand that their strength, and their faculties (hands, feet, eyes, speech) are meant to be used for God’s glory it gives them an external motivation. So gentle reminders are given when we are at home and out in public to help them think outside of themselves and to see the world and people around them—whether that means helping to open the door for someone or comforting a friend who’s has been hurt— it’s all to help them develop a deep, quiet confidence that isn’t rooted in arrogance, but in purpose. Plus, let’s be honest, there’s nothing quite as humbling as helping to clean up after your brother or others! Jesus Himself taught us that true leadership comes through service, and I want my boys to follow His example, and understand the inner strength it takes to think of others.
It’s OK to cry
We are at a stage in life with our boys where crying is the resounding sound in our home, so let’s talk about emotions for a second. We are balancing the importance of them talking with us when they are upset over screaming and shouting. Simultaneously we acknowledge that being strong doesn’t mean stuffing down their feelings and pretending that they are ok when they aren’t.
Boys also need space to express frustration, sadness, and even joy without being told to “be strong.” In our home, we encourage each other to talk things through—sometimes by removing them from a tense environment because resilience isn’t about hiding emotions but trying our best to handle them in a Christ-centered way. Praying together, reading God’s Word, and seeking His wisdom helps us all to process our emotions in a way that strengthens our faith and character.
Role Models
Positive role models also play a crucial role in building resilience. Boys need to see strong, faith-filled men who exemplify integrity, perseverance, and humility. Whether it’s their father, a pastor, a coach, or a trusted mentor, having godly role models shows them what it means to live with strength and grace under pressure. When they see men who turn to God in times of struggle, who admit their mistakes, and who stand firm in their beliefs, they learn to do the same. Surrounding them with wise, godly counsel reinforces the values we teach at home and gives them examples to emulate as they grow. As they are young, we have begun that journey for them through stories and books, as well as spending quality time with daddy.
Proverbs 22:6 reminds us to “train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” At the end of the day, our goal isn’t to raise tough guys; it’s to raise kind, courageous, and faithful men who will stand firm in a shaky world. With a lot of prayer, patience, and probably a lot more mistakes, I trust that God will shape them into exactly who He created them to be, and we look forward to celebrating the good fruit that comes from their lives!
I don’t know about you, but there are some days when I look around at the chaos of our homeschool and wonder, What in the world is going on? The boys are arguing, fighting and screaming over toys, I am getting resistance with sit down book work and reading, and my youngest is determined to turn all the walls of my house into his museum of drawings. Meanwhile, I’m nursing a cold cup of coffee, a very messy kitchen (even though it was cleaned the night before), and sleepiness from waking up at 4:45am just to get a head start on the day before everyone wakes up. With fatigue, strain, frustration and overwhelm at an all time high, its easy to question whether we made the right decision to homeschool.
Some days, these are my thoughts, so first of all, I want to assure you that if you have felt any of this, you are not alone. There is no homeschooling mum on this planet (or probably even in the universe, if alien homeschooling mums exist) who hasn’t wondered at least once if she made a monumental mistake. It’s normal. We’ve all had those moments of doubt—when the curriculum doesn’t click, when the kids resist every lesson, or when we constantly feel that we are not enough. But let me remind you of something that God has been whispering to my heart lately: His grace is sufficient. Even on the hard days. Especially on the hard days. Here’s a beautiful hymn for you to tuck away in your heart.
I get it, though. It’s easy to romanticise homeschooling before we start. We picture morning devotionals with well-behaved children, afternoons spent exploring nature, and evenings reading classic literature in a cosy setting. Reality looks a little more like Weetabix smeared on every surface, (AND THEN DRYING IN A BLINK OF AN EYE!!), disruptive food requests every. five. minutes, and a “read-aloud” where you’re the only one actually listening to the story. And yet, even in the mess, there are so many beautiful moments waiting to be noticed.
A few tips and encouragement
When doubt comes knocking, I’ve found it helps to revisit why my husband and I chose this path in the first place. For me, it’s about nurturing my boys’ hearts as much as their minds. It’s about weaving our faith into their education and having the freedom to teach them in a way that honours their unique gifts and strengths. Yes, even when those gifts include making fart noises during lessons. (Lord, give me strength with these boys.)
Sometimes we just need to change our perspective. If a lesson is flopping or the kids are bouncing off the walls, maybe it’s time to pause the plan for the day. Go outside for a walk (which is my absolute go to), build a blanket fort, or get in the kitchen and bake and call it “life skills.” It all still counts. I have learnt that homeschooling isn’t about sticking rigidly to a schedule; it’s about creating a life where learning happens naturally and joyfully—well, most of the time for the children, and for us as mums.
Another thing that helps is connecting with other homeschooling mums. Join a co-op, find a support group, or just call that one friend who always “gets it.” There’s something so comforting about hearing someone else say, “Oh, me too!” We were made for community, and sharing our struggles often lightens the load.
Grace is available
Don’t forget to extend yourself some grace. God didn’t call us to this journey because He thought we would do it perfectly. He called us and wants us to depend upon Him every step of the way. Your children don’t need a perfect teacher; they need you. They need your love, your laughter, and yes, even your occasional meltdowns. (I firmly believe that seeing us apologise, pray for strength, handle difficult moments and regroup is an important life lesson for them.)
So, on the days when you’re tempted to throw in the towel, remember this: You are planting seeds, even when you can’t see the harvest yet. The hard days are part of the story, but they’re not the whole story. And who knows? Maybe one day, your children will look back on these years and thank you for the gift of learning together. They’ll remember a specific day (that you thought was pretty awful) and say that was one of the best moments of their lives. Or at least in my case they’ll remember how to bake really good cakes. Either way, you’re doing just fine, Mama. Keep going. ❤️
As a homeschooling mum to three energetic boys, I’ve had my fair share of days where the kitchen resembles a science lab, and our garden a war zone as they play together and learn! Keeping my boys engaged in their studies is not always the easiest, especially when all they want to do is climb trees and launch themselves off of anything furniture-like. With a sprinkle of creativity, and a lot of patience and prayer, I’ve discovered some fantastic ways to turn their boundless energy into fruitful learning adventures. In this post, I’ll be sharing some fun and creative homeschooling ideas that have helped me, and hopefully will help keep your boys not just busy, but excited about learning!
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1. Add plenty of breaks during sit down learning time (for those that need it).
Taking regular breaks is a game-changer when it comes to helping boys focus on their learning. Boys, with high energy levels and a natural inclination towards physical activity, often find it challenging to sit still and concentrate for long periods. My eldest really finds it challenging to be still for so long and so regular breaks allows him to burn off some of that excess energy, which then significantly improves his ability to focus. We use a timer to create a rhythm to our day: 20-30 minutes of focused work followed by a short break. During these breaks, the boys can run around outside, have a snack, or play with their toys. This helps them to have a little bit of a mental reset so they feel refreshed and ready to continue concentrating.
Adding regular breaks into our homeschooling routine felt counterintuitive at first—my brain was thinking “aren’t we supposed to be maximising learning time?” But trust me, these breaks are not just about pausing work; they’re about enhancing the overall quality of learning, and embracing the natural wiggles and jumps of my boys as part of a balanced and effective homeschooling strategy!
2. Include creative and interesting field trips for boys.
Incorporating real-world experiences into learning is another way to keep boys engaged. Field trips to museums, farms, factories, and historical sites bring lessons to life. Even a simple outing to the local park can become educational with a bit of planning. Nature walks can turn into biology lessons, and trips to the supermarket can involve maths and economics. Boys learn best when they can see, touch, and experience the world around them.
Honestly, field trips are a real gem, and provide so much. They may take a little bit of planning, and can feel tiresome for us mums, but for my boys they break up the monotony of sitting at a desk everyday, and provide a change of scenery that can re-energise and motivate them. The anticipation of a fun and interesting trip can keep them engaged and give them something to look forward to. Also, field trips often involve interacting with other people, whether it’s a tour guide, other students, or community members. These interactions help my boys practice and develop important social skills such as listening, asking questions, and working collaboratively. They also provide opportunities to practice good manners and respectful behaviour in different settings.
What I love most about field trips is that they can light the flame for curiosity and exploration. Children are naturally curious and love to explore and trips cater to this curiosity and encourage them to ask questions, seek out new information, and explore their interests. This sense of adventure can ignite a lifelong love of learning and discovery!
3. Boys need arts, crafts and DIY too
Encouraging creativity through arts, crafts and DIY builds can also be highly engaging for boys. They may be enthusiastic about drawing or painting, and often love projects that involve building, sculpting, or assembling. This is because generally, boys excel when it comes to kinesthetic learning, which involves doing and creating. Building projects and crafts provide a tactile, hands-on way to grasp concepts that might seem abstract or challenging when presented through traditional methods. This type of learning can make subjects like maths, science, and engineering more relatable and understandable.
We’ve made everything from cardboard castles to clay models of the solar system, our own electronic fans (that work!) and so much more. These activities have not only provided a welcome break from more structured academic work, but they have allowed my boys to express themselves, and develop fine motor skills. I love including DIY build projects in our week because they often require time and attention to detail which helps develop patience and focus. Whether they’re meticulously assembling a model or carefully following instructions for a craft, these activities teach them to concentrate and see a task through to the end. Successfully completing a project or creating something from scratch also significantly boosts their confidence and sense of accomplishment.
4. Create healthy competitive group games.
One afternoon I sat looking outside my kitchen window at my 3 boys and their boy cousin as couldn’t help but smile as they played very physical competitive games with each other in the garden. It was a very sweet moment and made me realise that socialisation is another critical aspect of homeschooling, and boys often thrive in group settings where they can collaborate and compete in a healthy way. We regularly meet up with other homeschooling families for group activities. Whether it’s a science club or geography club, a sports team, or a co-op where we parents take turns teaching, these interactions provide invaluable opportunities for boys to learn social skills and build friendships.
When structured well, competitive games can teach boys about healthy competition. They learn to strive for their best while maintaining respect for their opponents, and I believe that this balance helps them develop a positive attitude towards competition, emphasising effort and improvement over just winning. Above all, competitive games are fun! They provide a break from routine and offer a joyful and exciting way to learn and grow.
5. Technology & boys.
Incorporating technology thoughtfully and at the right age can be a game-changer in keeping boys interested in learning. If your boy is anything like mine, they are probably easily drawn to gadgets and screens, so we occasionally use educational apps and websites to supplement some of our lessons. There are fantastic resources out there for everything from coding to virtual museum tours. We also use educational games and interactive software to make learning more dynamic. However, it’s important to balance screen time with physical activities and face-to-face interactions.
Homeschooling boys is an amazing blend of chaos and joy. I am finding my feet and balance with embracing their boundless energy, and turning everyday moments into fun learning opportunities. I hope some of these tips will help you survive amidst the noise and mess, and remember that within it all, you’re creating a rich, dynamic learning environment and precious memories that will last a lifetime.
As a homeschooling mum of three very energetic boys, my days are filled with the kind of energy that could power a small town! If you’re thinking about homeschooling your boys, or if you’re already in the experience of it, let me tell you—it’s a wild, wonderful ride. Boys have a unique way of turning even the most mundane tasks into grand adventures. Whether it’s transforming the living room into a battlefield or discovering the science of “how high can we launch this toy?”—there’s never a dull moment. And while it can be exhausting, it’s also incredibly rewarding.
One of the first things I learned about homeschooling boys is the importance of movement. They are not designed to sit still for long periods, and that’s perfectly okay. We embrace a lot of breaks, outdoor play, and hands-on learning e.g. maths becomes more engaging when you use Legos or Magna Tiles to solve them and spelling words are more fun when you can jump on a trampoline while reciting them, or use spelling games. The garden and nearby parks often serves as our classroom, where nature walks turn into impromptu science lessons. And let’s not forget the endless supply of sticks that magically transform into swords, wands, or digging tools for their “archaeological” digs and builds.
Another key element is embracing their interests. My boys are fascinated by everything from dinosaurs to superheroes, so I weave these themes into our lessons. Stories come alive when we read about warriors and kings and characters they love. By tapping into what excites them, I find they’re more engaged and eager to learn. And let’s be honest, when they’re excited, it makes my job much easier—and a lot more fun!
Of course, there are challenging days, like when our science experiment explodes all over the kitchen (note to self: always double-check the measurements), or I am contending with bad attitudes and tantrums. But even in those moments, there are valuable lessons to be learned—like the importance of perseverance, patience, and sometimes, the necessity of a good sense of humour. After all, laughter can turn a disaster into a memorable teaching moment. Homeschooling boys is a journey of discovery, for both them and us as parents. It’s about finding the balance between structure and spontaneity, discipline and freedom. And in the midst of the noise and chaos, it’s about cherishing the opportunity to shape and nurture their curious minds and adventurous spirits.
Another essential part of homeschooling boys is fostering their sense of independence and responsibility. Boys often thrive when given the chance to take the lead and solve problems on their own. I’ve found that incorporating practical life skills into our daily routine not only keeps them engaged but also helps them feel capable and accomplished. Whether it’s cooking a simple meal, managing their own chore charts, or building something with their hands, these activities teach them invaluable lessons about self-reliance and accountability. Plus, it’s amazing to see the pride in their eyes when they successfully complete a task or project!
Lastly, let’s talk about the importance of cultivating a sense of faith and character. As a Christian homeschooling mum, I see each day as an opportunity to instill values like kindness, integrity, and compassion. Our Bible devotion time isn’t just another subject on the schedule; it’s a cornerstone of our day. Through stories, prayers, and discussions, we are intentionally seeking to shape and guide our boys in understanding and living out their faith.
We talk about real-life applications, like showing kindness to a sibling or being honest even when it’s hard. These moments are the heart of our homeschooling journey, helping shape them not just into knowledgeable individuals, but also men of strong character and faith. So, as we navigate the ups and downs of homeschooling, I’m constantly reminded that this journey is about much more than academics—it’s about raising my boys to be thoughtful, faithful, and compassionate individuals ready to make a positive impact on the world.
Amidst all the (chaotic) lessons and life skills, I am really trying to not forget the importance of simply having fun together. Building forts out of blankets, going on impromptu scavenger hunts, and having dance battles in the living room are just as crucial as any maths or reading lesson. These joyful, spontaneous moments create bonds and memories that will last a lifetime. They remind us why we chose this path in the first place—to enjoy the freedom to learn and grow together as a family. Homeschooling is as much about nurturing our relationships and creating a loving, supportive environment as it is about education.
So, here’s to all the homeschooling mums of boys out there—may your coffee be strong, your patience be long, and your days filled with love and laughter.
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Homeschooling our boys has so far been such an exciting and full on journey! We are delving head on into wonder-filled discovery and it has been both my challenge and joy to help the boys lean more into their learning styles, as well as value and enjoy the process of learning! Hands up if you are the type of mum that picks up every educational book because you just KNOW that it’ll add value to their learning experience? Or was it at a price that you couldn’t resist? ha!
One of the challenges with Home Ed is keeping all your things organised! Managing books, supplies, toys and resources can quickly become overwhelming if not handled with care. An organised homeschool space is crucial for maintaining a productive and stress-free learning atmosphere – no matter the size of your space. Here are some practical tips to help you create an organised and efficient homeschool environment.
1. Create a dedicated homeschool space
One of the beauties of homeschooling is that we can create a beautiful seamless flow between home life and learning. I think even with this though, when it comes to some sit down learning, it’s useful to designate a specific area in your home for homeschooling. This space doesn’t need to be a separate room; a corner of a living room, dining table, or dining area can work just fine. The key is to have a consistent place where all specific learning activities take place and where all materials are stored.
A designated learning space helps to minimise distractions that are common in other parts of the house. It provides a controlled environment where toys, TV, and other household activities are not within immediate reach, encouraging and training our children’s minds to concentrate. Also, if you have multiple children who do not learn together, you can create separate play/learning areas so each child can focus on what they are doing.
Also, for us mamas, it helps us to feel organised and in control of the homeschooling process. This designated area allows for all educational materials, books, and supplies to be kept in one place, reducing clutter and the stress of searching for items when needed. It also establishes a clear routine and structure within our home, making it easier for us to manage daily schedules and transitions between activities. Knowing that there is a specific, orderly spot for learning activities not only streamlines the homeschooling process but also creates a sense of calm and efficiency (I play instrumentals on the speaker when my eldest is learning at the table).
2. Use bookshelves wisely
Books are an essential part of homeschooling! They transport us to the world, and fill our hearts and minds with such wonder. I am a big fan of books and I am working so intentionally to make it part of the children’s lives. When we started homeschooling, one of the first things I was told was “all you need is a Bible and a library card”. Books at home can quickly accumulate though without you realising it! Invest in sturdy bookshelves to keep them organised. Here are some ways that we have used bookshelves and been creative with them!
Floating mounted book shelves by each boys sleeping area has been a great addition to the boys room. I wanted to create a private and personal area for them to keep their most favourite books that they could read in bed either in the morning if they wake up early or the evening before they go to sleep.
An accessible book case is also great for encouraging independent reading and access to books. By having a dedicated space at their height, children can independently explore and choose books that pique their interest and this creates a sense of ownership and excitement about reading. Even my 2 year old enjoys taking books from the shelf!
Book binsare also utilised for taller books, and to make it more fun for the children, we have them placed in different locations of the house. These bins are regularly rotated to keep the interest, as they don’t know what treasures they’ll find in them!
An IKEA Bookcase with panel/glass doors is used to store books and resources that need to be out of reach of young hands, as well as books that are little advanced for them at this stage (but I am still buying or collecting!) We chose the book shelf with panels/doors to create a visually appealing area that is attractive to the eye.
3. Incorporate storage bins and containers
Storage bins and containers are lifesavers for organising homeschool books because they provide a practical and efficient way to keep materials orderly and accessible. With homeschooling often involving numerous books, workbooks, and supplies, these bins and containers help categorise and store items neatly, preventing clutter and making it easier to find specific resources quickly.
They can be labelled and colour-coded, further enhancing the organisation and allowing for easy rotation of subjects or materials. Additionally, using storage solutions helps maintain a tidy learning environment, which can reduce distractions and create a more focused, productive space for both teaching and learning. This organisation not only streamlines the homeschooling process (allowing you to see exactly the things that you have) but it also instills good habits of tidiness and responsibility in our children.
Use clear bins to store art supplies, science kits, math manipulatives, and other materials. Label each bin clearly to make it easy for your children to find what they need and to put things back in their proper place.
4. Implement a rotating system for supplies
To prevent clutter and ensure that all of your materials are used, implement a rotating system. It’s so helpful especially when we often tempted to add more when we are out and about in the shops. Creating a rotation system can help keep things fresh for us too. Store out-of-season or future materials in a closet or storage area, and bring them out when needed. This keeps your main homeschooling space tidy and focused.
5. Utilise a rolling cart
A rolling cart can be a versatile addition to your homeschool setup and I know a few homeschool mamas who use them. We use a tower drawer unit as I found it more handy to throw toys into when they weren’t in use. Also, I feels easier to keep things neater. You can use either to keep daily essentials like current textbooks, planners, and supplies handy. At the end of the day, It can be rolled away, or picked up and moved to keep your space clutter-free. They are both great options for moving materials from room to room if you don’t have a dedicated homeschool space.
6. Set up a command center
A command center helps to encourage proactivity and focus on daily activities. Using a bulletin board or wall organiser to display your family’s daily schedule, calendar, chore charts, and important notices is crucial for maintaining order and clarity in your household and homeschooling experience.
As busy parents, having a visible, centralised spot for all essential information helps everyone stay on the same page and creates a sense of responsibility and routine among everyone. It ensures that daily activities, appointments, and chores are clearly communicated, reducing the likelihood of missed tasks or misunderstandings. We use yearly calendars, as well as a large whiteboard in the kitchen to help us bring together the many moving parts in our home.
This visual organisation tool can also serve as a motivational center, where achievements and important reminders are highlighted, promoting a positive and proactive household environment. By keeping everything in plain sight, a bulletin board or wall organiser simplifies the juggling act of family life, making it easier to manage time, responsibilities, and expectations effectively.
7. Establish a filing system
Creating a filing system for important papers, assignments, and records is key! You could use a filing cabinet or portable file box to organise by subject or student. This system will make it easier to keep track of completed work and necessary documents as your children grow older.
Organising your homeschool and your home doesn’t have to be a daunting task. With a bit of planning and creativity, you can create a learning environment that is both functional and inspiring. Remember, the goal is to make your space work for youand your children, fostering a love for learning and making homeschooling a joyful experience for everyone involved.
Happy organising and a massive thank you to a dear friend of mine Karla from Klear My Space who helped me sort through and organise my boys things. She’s a wonderful, a reliable and professional home decluttering and organising solutions person who is just a phone call away if you need some help!
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It’s so easy to be hyper focused on our children’s academic success that we miss nurturing the person within that God has created them to be. One morning as we made our way to the library I watched my two boys scooting in front of me and I thought WOW. Look at them. Have you ever had that moment too mama?
When you just stop in your tracks and look at your children and become overwhelmed at the gift of who they are. You look at their faces, watch them play or focused on an activity and suddenly you are seeing them in 5-10 years time and wonder what they will look like and how they’ll be? It’s an overwhelmingly beautiful moment! A true wonder.
Most days though, my mind forgets this as I am hyper focused on helping them to master their penmanship skills, phonics and maths (I talk more about identifying their learning styles in another post). In those moments, character isn’t so much at the forefront of my mind as them getting their work correct is.
Yet imagine if we focused on nurturing their character first, knowing that if we master that, we’ll also nail their relationship with learning and ultimately academic success.
I know, I know; the thought of not having the pursuit of academics at the forefront of their learning experience is enough to send a chill down our backs. I for sure know that it feels scary not focusing on academics first because a huge part of me feels insecure about them not mastering the academic side of learning from an early age! Academics also came very naturally to me, so it has always been my default when I think about their learning experience.
However my boys have taught me that for them at this stage and age, academics first would actually crush their spirits and dampen the relationship that I am working on building with them. I see that one of my sons comes alive when learning is made very practical for him and it doesn’t feel like “learning”. He is very much a kinesthetic learner and he started to open my eyes to the possibility of adapting my approach and view of what learning looks like.
Character First
Nevertheless, character first seems to be signaling so brightly to me. When we build on the character first, the academic success is not only enhanced, but their view and approach to life is enhanced too.
There are some moments when I have been really frustrated when trying to encourage my first born son to learn a particular concept. I am hitting a brick wall while he is having a meltdown! When he works on his craft projects- which he absolutely loves to do, he always starts crying and throwing his items on the floor in frustration when he gets stuck on a particular thing. One day, I realised that instead of becoming frustrated with him, while I watched him struggle to manage his emotions, I needed to spend some time teaching him about perseverance. I need to train this character trait in him.
On another day, I was finding it difficult to maintain a sense of order while I worked with my 2nd born because he kept on forcing his way and talking over me while I tried to explain something. The constant interruptions made it difficult for me to flow well, and I was very frustrated. That day also made me realise that I need to nurture the character trait of self control, empathy and respect within his heart.
I realise that my attempt to train character has a bigger reach. Working on their hearts is key because when we master that, this strength in character flows well to affect other areas of their lives- not just academics. From helping with chores, being together as a family as well as working well with their formal learning, the blessing is far reaching.
Nurturing character is effectively training the heart. It is the hardest job to do and requires consistency with instruction and practice. Good character doesn’t come easily or naturally to us because responding as our raw emotions lead us to is powerful. Our children have the potential of the muscle hidden within, and as mothers it is our job to help them exercise this muscle little by little to build strength, trusting that the practice of this training will bear fruit in their lives over time.
What Character traits are useful?
Character development plays a crucial role in helping our children build academic success in several ways:
Responsibility and accountability:
When our children develop a sense of responsibility, they are more likely to complete their work well, and take ownership of their learning experience. When we give them a vision that they have a part to play in filling their minds with good, beautiful and wonderful things, it fosters a sense of responsibility in this area.
Perseverance and resilience:
Character traits like perseverance and resilience help our children navigate academic challenges and setbacks. Instead of giving up when they get stuck on something, they learn to keep trying and never give up, which is essential for mastering difficult subjects and overcoming obstacles in life. We have to be there to keep encouraging them to get back up, and sowing the seeds into their hearts to persevere until they reach a solution. I am often so tempted to step in when they get stuck, but I have to also train myself to hold off for a little while so they can build a little muscle in this area. I’ll be doing them a disservice if I am constantly running to their rescue.
Self-Discipline and time management:
Self-discipline helps our children to focus on their studies, avoid distractions, and prioritise their tasks effectively over time. I am always encouraging the boys toward good time management when we need to leave the house so they’ll be aware that efficiency in this area is important. Picking up after themselves, keeping their work area reasonably organised, focusing on one task at a time are some of the ways that I also help build personal discipline within their hearts.
Integrity and honesty:
Integrity ensures that our children engage in honest academic practices, such as not cheating on exams or taking short cuts to do their work. It’s so easy to do, especially whey they lose interest and want to do something else, or want to rush through quickly.
Empathy and collaboration:
Developing empathy helps our children to work well with their teachers, creating a positive learning environment. Collaborative skills are crucial for group projects and cooperative learning activities, and encouraging them in this area is so important as they need to have respect for others as much as they do with wanting their voice to be heard. Respect is a big thing in our household of boys who have big personalities. Everyone wants to be first, and have their own way but life doesn’t work that way, so we need to teach them about the importance of working with others when it is needed.
Confidence and self-esteem:
Strong character builds confidence and self-esteem, and while encouraging empathy, we can also encourage our children to participate actively and at appropriate times by asking questions, and seeking help when needed rather than internalising their frustration with their work. One of the moments that helps us to build this character trait is during devotion time where we encourage questions, throughout.
Curiosity and Love of Learning:
Character traits such as curiosity and a love of learning inspire our children to explore subjects deeply and engage with the material beyond their classroom. This is the area that we don’t want to die because we want them to se the beauty in being life long learners. We don’t want the flame to be snuffed out because of rigid routines and expectations.
Strategies to help you instill strong character traits in your child
Teaching our children character involves intentional actions and consistent modelling of positive behaviours, as well as prayer over their lives. Remembering to give them a vision of who God is calling them to be and what the Bible encourages them to be sows a spiritual seed beyond our own voices.
Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.
Proverbs 22:6
Here are a few ideas to encourage you in building character in your children:
Model positive behaviour:
Starting with one of the hardest ones and pointing the spotlight on ourselves! Children learn by observing their parents and caregivers. So it’s important that we demonstrate the character traits we want to instill, such as honesty, kindness, patience, and responsibility. I am so convicted by this lol! If I want my boys to be kind to others, it would be great if they first saw me modelling this to a loved one or stranger. What is caught tends to stick. Be consistent in your actions and words.
Set clear expectations and boundaries:
Establishing clear rules and expectations for behaviour is so important. With multiple children, this encouragement is so key because they feed off each other. Explain the importance of your house rules and the values behind them. We have an “Awuku” mantra that the boys say most days and have memorised. When someone misbehaves or mistreats another, we remind them of the expectations. Consistent enforcement helps our children understand the boundaries and the reasons for them.
Encourage responsibility:
Give your child age-appropriate tasks and responsibilities at home. This can include chores, managing their homework, or caring for their younger sibling. Responsibility teaches accountability and the value of contributing to the family which is so important. Responsibility is something that is dear to my heart in raising my boys because they lean towards being lazy and expecting everything to be done for them. Absolutely not lol! I am busting that myth. They need to know that they are part of a group, and it is only through responsible work that things get done.
Teach empathy and compassion:
Encourage your child to consider others’ feelings and perspectives. Use teachable moments, such as discussing a story where someone is treated unfairly to talk about empathy and kindness. I find that picking books around a topic like this is so helpful because it fires their imaginations. We all love a story- especially a life giving story that inspires us to rise up to be a better version of ourselves. When you see your child demonstrating empathy and compassion, give it a gently recognition, as this helps validate their positive action and they’ll want to keep doing it.
Promote honesty and integrity:
Foster a culture of honesty by encouraging your child to speak the truth and by being honest yourself. Praise them when they tell the truth, even in difficult situations. Discuss the importance of integrity and the consequences of dishonesty through stories and vivid illustrations because again this gives a vision that sticks in their hearts. While they are young, constant sowing and watering of he honesty and integrity seed is so important as when they grow and encounter many things, we hope that they’ll remain open with us.
Encourage perseverance and resilience:
Teach your child to face challenges and setbacks with a positive attitude. It is certainly an area where we have to persevere ourselves! We have to keep encouraging them to keep trying, even when things are difficult. It can be anything from making their bed, trying up their shoe laces correctly, putting their clothes on, writing their name, washing their hands after using the toilet, picking up their toys and putting them in the right place. We are there to encourage them towards doing things well and seeing it through to the end. Here, you can again share stories (even from your own life) of perseverance and discuss the importance of not giving up.
Teach gratitude:
Cultivate an attitude of gratitude by encouraging your child to express thanks for what they have and for the people in their lives. Prayer helps with this, as well as having conversations about God and His mercies. Some may like to practice gratitude together as a family by keeping gratitude journals or sharing things that you are thankful for each day. Training them to know what to be thankful for (such as people, provision etc) is important because it helps them to know where to direct deeper thoughts that goes beyond their toys.
Promote fairness and justice:
As much as our children love each other, they also fight ALOT because each wants their own needs met all the time. Teaching them to play fair, share, and treat others with respect is a daily work on our part because their flesh dictates so strongly. How can we do this? Talk about a situation where someone was treated unfairly. This could be from a news story, a book, or a personal experience. Discuss why it was unfair and what could have been done differently to make it just.
Use toys and playtime to teach sharing. If one child is using a toy, explain that they need to let others have a turn after a reasonable amount of time. Praise them when they share willingly.
Set up role-playing scenarios where children can practice resolving conflicts fairly. For instance, one child pretends to be upset because they were left out of a game, and the other must find a fair solution.
Encourage your child to think about how their actions affect others. If they are unkind or unfair, ask them how they would feel if the situation were reversed. This helps them understand the impact of their behavior on others.
Engage in hospitality and your community:
It is good for our children to see love for others in action and that looks different in all our homes. By involving them in our acts of service and hospitality helps to reinforce the idea that there is a world that exists outside of their own and encourages compassion and thoughtfulness towards others. Involve your child in local community service or volunteer activities. This helps to provide practical opportunities to practice and observe positive character traits in others which will also encourage them in a great way.
So there we go mama. I hope you’ll see by this post just how deep and far and broad character nurture goes, and I have only touched on a few areas. Nurturing character in our children while fostering academic success is a delicate but achievable balance that yields lifelong benefits. By modelling positive behaviour, encouraging empathy, and creating an environment where values like responsibility, honesty, and kindness are practiced daily, we lay a strong foundation for both personal growth and academic achievement over time.
Integrating character-building activities into our routines and using everyday moments as teaching opportunities will help our children develop into well-rounded individuals. Remember, the goal is not perfection but progress. With patience, consistency, and a focus on personal and spiritual development, we can support our children in becoming successful in whatever they put their mind and hearts to.
I’ve created some beautiful printables to help our children build character. These printables are available in the shop and will encourage conversations and serve as great reminders!
I’d love to hear from you! What are you implementing in your home to encourage character in your children?
Cultivating a space where curiosity thrives, imaginations soar, and hearts are touched by the wonders of God’s creation is an incredible process to be part of. As mums we have the opportunity to provide that for our children yet at the same time, it can feel overwhelming when we think of our tidy homes being transformed into a playground for little hands, minds and feet. Creating a fun learning environment is totally doable in any environment, and with a few systems and strategies in place, we can transform pockets of areas, and most importantly our atmosphere to bring life to all the souls that dwell in it.
I lean toward minimalism, but I have still found a few ways to make room for play and imagination in my home. In today’s post I am sharing some ideas that we have incorporated into our space to make learning fun for our 3 boys.
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Use colourful, relatable and engaging decorations: Decorating a wall or part of it with beautiful thought provoking artwork helps to spark the imagination. Incorporating bright colours within the learning space such as posters, artwork, and educational materials related to the subjects your children are studying is useful for igniting further interest in that area. So take your time to search for beautiful imagery, because it’ll not only be visually beautiful and inspiring to look at, but it’ll naturally lead to a conversation about the creativity, wisdom and unmatched power of God.
Incorporate Games and Interactive Activities: Integrate educational games, puzzles, board games, and interactive learning activities that make learning feel like play. These can also include scavenger hunts, role-playing games, and simulations. Teaching on and learning about subjects such as Maths, English, History and Science can be brought to life by incorporating hands on activities. This just cements the information and children are more likely to remember facts and information when it is presented in a vivid way. The boys love learning in a very hands on way, and with my kinesthetic learner, group activities, and hands on activities work really well.
Create a Cozy Reading Nook: Design a comfortable and inviting reading area with bean bags, pillows, rugs, and shelves stocked with a variety of books, including fiction, non-fiction, and picture books. This could be in the children’s bedrooms, or in the living area next to the sofa. Reading nooks serve as a personal sanctuary (no matter how small or simple it is) and encourages regular quiet reading time which is great for everyone! It helps to break reading and learning out of a box and reinforces the truth that learning can and does happen everywhere!
Utilise Hands-on Learning Materials: Providing manipulatives, such as blocks, LEGO, puzzles, and art supplies, that children can use to explore concepts in a tactile and hands-on manner is great for creating a fun learning environment. They are so useful for engaging the mind during down time or “gap moments” before something else is scheduled to take place. I have found that my boys are always engaged for a while as it really suits their learning style.
Integrate Technology in a Purposeful Way: Incorporating educational apps, interactive whiteboards, educational videos, and digital resources can enhance learning experiences and allow children to explore topics in innovative ways. The boys love watching Science Max at Large, Dude Perfect, Superbook, Dr Bionics and Science Planet.
Outdoor Learning Spaces: Taking advantage of outdoor spaces for learning activities whenever possible is a must if you want to create a fun learning environment for children. They love to run, jump, dive, create and so much more. If you don’t have a garden or balcony space, the park or fields, trails are absolutely great for getting everyone outdoors for fresh air and fun. You can also conduct science experiments, go on nature walks, get involved in gardening projects, or art sessions in the backyard or local parks. The boys attend forest school once a week and really enjoy swinging, jumping, building dens, playing in mud and working on craft activities.
Incorporate Music and Movement: Music, songs, and movement activities are so important for children as they make learning complex information really fun and easy to remember (think of times tables, poems, languages science information). A quick search online can yield so many results and helps to to enhance learning and energise the atmosphere. Create playlists with educational songs or encourage children to create their own music related to the topics they’re studying!
Celebrate Achievements and Milestones: Recognising and celebrating our children’s achievements, progress, and efforts with praise, rewards, certificates, or special activities can make their learning experience fun. Positive recognition boosts motivation and fosters a sense of accomplishment. We use stickers, and an achievement “trophy” that they boys can earn when they go above and beyond to do a particular work without prompt.
Encourage Collaboration and Teamwork: Providing opportunities for the children to work together on projects, to solve problems collaboratively, and to share their ideas and knowledge with one another is important when trying to build a fun community based environment. We have regular “sports days” in our garden which is so much fun. It gets very competitive which adds to my fun haha.
Rotate Learning Centers: Set up different learning stations or centers with activities related to various subjects or skills. Rotate these centers periodically to keep the environment fresh and exciting. We all need change once in a while to freshen our minds and give us new inspiration. Children are no different. When we change up the space every now and again it invites new energy into activities, and I have found that engagement and focus is also improved.
I hope these tips and ideas have been helpful by incorporating these elements into your learning environment, you can create a space where children feel excited, motivated, and eager to explore and learn! Are there any other things that you do to make learning fun for your children?
I looked at my little 5 year old as I attempted to engage him in some sit down learning and I felt two strong emotions. Compassion because I could see he wasn’t just struggling with the task, but he really wasn’t enjoying it. I also felt frustrated because here we were, on yet another day and I felt like a failure at not being able to “crack the code” when it came to winning his interest and attention to sit down and work through some pages with me.
Teaching our children can feel like a very daunting task, and one of the beautiful benefits of home schooling is that learning can be tailored to the strengths of each child, and time can be given to really personalise their learning experience and build their confidence. Equally, it can be frustrating because you are dealing head on with their struggles everyday. If you are feeling overwhelmed with where to start with the different personalities of your children, here are some strategies that you can try which I hope will help:
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1. Identify Each Child’s Learning Style
Understanding how each child learns best is the first step. Common learning styles include visual (learning through images and spatial understanding), auditory (learning through listening and speaking), kinesthetic (learning through physical activities and hands-on experiences), and reading/writing (learning through reading and writing activities). Supporting our children to learn in a way that is natural to them will help them thrive and it will alleviate a lot of the frustration that we and they feel when it comes to growing learning and discovering the word around them.
It takes time and you may have good days and bad days, but I’m learning to just embrace it all and take my time and try to enjoy the process. First born is very much a kinaesthetic learner and so I can exercise wisdom in this area, and instead of expecting and demanding him to do book work, what I try to do with his learning is to break it up into chunks of tasks. He will do what I refer to as core discipline studies which is a few minutes on penmanship, working out some number sums, and a little bit of phonics. Once he has completed that, his reward is working on a lego project or STEM activity which he absolutely loves.
2. Create a variety of learning activities:
Offer a mix of activities that cater to different learning styles. For example:
For visual learners: You could use diagrams, charts, videos, and illustrations to explain concepts.
For auditory learners: Engage in discussions, storytelling, reading aloud, and listening to educational podcasts.
For kinesthetic learners: Incorporate hands-on activities, experiments, role-playing, and physical games.
For reading/writing learners: Provide written materials, encourage note-taking, and assign reading assignments followed by discussions or written summaries.
DIY project tasks have worked really great with my eldest because it allows him to use his brain in a very active way which he absolutely loves. He loves to solve puzzles, and find solutions to tasks, so this has really engaged him. I also see how it fuels his confidence because once he realises his strength and what he’s naturally good at, he wants to learn more and he wants to do more. He loves to talk about the things that he’s created and how he has put it together which is so encouraging to hear.
My second born is predominantly a read and write learner. He takes in information that’s written down in a very logical way. He enjoys books and equations so I find that the traditional books work well. He enjoys the typical comprehension, questions and tasks, and figuring things out, so my approach for him, leans towards text, and any visual or auditory representation of an idea, which he does really well with. Seeing these two different learning styles makes me realise that God really makes none of us the same. We are wired so differently, so uniquely, so wonderfully by Him. As a mother, it is amazing to be able to nurture and bring out, and help my children to discover who God has made them to be.
3. Provide Choices
And another way you could figure out your child’s learning style is by providing them with a few choices for different types of work that you want them to complete over the period of a few weeks and observe what they gravitate to. This will help you to know where to lean into for learning activities. You can also engage in conversation with them about things they enjoy and why they enjoy it. This will give you an idea of how to put together their learning and play sessions. Hopefully in doing this, it will help your child to enjoy and stay focused on what they consider to be fun while also learning and activating a huge part of their brains in an activity.
Offer choices whenever possible to empower children in their learning process. For instance, allow them to choose from different assignments or projects that align with their interests and learning styles. Observe how your children respond to different learning activities and environments. Talk to them about their preferences and experiences in learning situations.
4. Create an environment that makes learning look fun
I am a minimalist calm, create a spa like ambience in my home type of girl, and so the thought of turning my entire home into a nursery or learning class doesn’t quite appeal to me, but I do recognise that for children, visuals are so important for inspiration, for memory, and for representation of where they are in this life stage. My laminator, my printer and Twinkl website are my best friends as I print put together little resources and learning packs for the boys.
I always have to remember that they are children and it’s important to encourage them to see the world with wonder, and to beautify it in a way that appeals to their senses. When I look at it from that perspective, creating a learning environment whether it’s a corner, conservatory, a whole room, or a bedroom seems like so much fun and even an inspiration to myself.
Creating a fun learning environment can really enhance their engagement and enthusiasm for learning. Most of us don’t have a separate room that we can turn into a magical learning world for them but if we really look around, we’ll see that we have pockets of space throughout our homes that we can use. If you want to encourage a love of books, you could create a small nook with either a book shelf or some baskets and keep a few books there, or scatter small piles of books throughout the house for them to casually pick up. The same can be done with toys and puzzles or whatever their interest may be.
5. Assess, pivot, personalise and pray
We can pray and ask God to give us wisdom to encourage and teach our children, as well as to give the process over to Him to do a work in our own hearts. We all change as we grow and so do our children’s learning styles over time. Keeping our expectations open will help us to pivot when we need to without feeling too overwhelmed. I am trying to be so much more intentional about just enjoying life and enjoying the process with them. The rest will surely fall into place as we journey along.
A book that has really encouraged me in this area is Sally Clarkson’s book: Awaking wonder. As mothers we want the best for our children. We want them to thrive in every area of their lives and we want to give them a strong foundation. However, it’s so easy to lose sight of the wonder that is found in the journey to this destination, and I think that I’ve come to understand how childlike wonder really can become lost in the fog of formulas, strict curriculum and pressure from external things. Helping my boys to engage authentically and confidently with who they are, while leaning into the truth that wonder and curiosity without constraints does empower such a powerful educational experience.
My encouragement to you Mama
“To give a child the gift of time to imagine, to dream, to create, to engage, and to wonder is to allow time and space for his heart to be touched by the beauty surrounding him, for his mind to have room to grow strong on the feast laid out for his imagination, and for his emotions to bathe in the tranquility of a peaceful life in an unhurried rhythm. Then we offer a feast of theology, math, story, literature, virtue, faith, science, nature, art, music and culture upon which to apply his wondering and wonderful mind. To lay this foundation is to give our children beauty and strength of imagination and the strong pleasure of learning and acquiring knowledge over a lifetime. Wonder is the catalyst in shaping a powerful, engaged intellect.”
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