Alethea Awuku

How to find value being at home

Published on May 24, 2025 by Alethea Awuku1 Comment

I remember the day I had THAT conversation with my boss, and handed in my resignation. I had a reliable job, a predictable rhythm, a reason to dress up, show up, and get things done. There was clarity in that world — performance reviews, deadlines, emails, rewards, outcomes. Yet I knew God was calling me out of it. Not because the work wasn’t good, but because from the moment I gave birth to my first son, I could sense Him whispering something deeper in my heart: Come home.

So with questions, fears, uncertainty and courage I said OK.

In many ways, it was beautiful. Slower mornings. More time with my babies. The chance to build something sacred behind the scenes.

But it wasn’t all soft lighting and a peaceful, pristine looking home.

What I didn’t expect was the quiet ache — the questioning of my worth, the mental weight of the mundane and of caring for all the people in my home, the way my world seemed to shrink even as my responsibilities multiplied. I left one kind of work and entered another — one that was far less recognised, but no less demanding.

I struggled to understand how valuable I could be, and yet, again and again, the Lord kept on reminding me: This work matters.

If you’re reading this as a mother who’s come home full time — or is thinking about it — and you’re struggling to feel the value in what you now do day after day, I want to gently offer this space and my thoughts. Not a formula or a fix, but a re-framing. A way to see our role not through the lens of the world, but through the eyes of a God who honours faithfulness in the hidden places.

This is for the mothers, the homemakers, the soul-weary women wondering if they’re doing enough.

I’ll be sharing some honest thoughts about why it feels hard to find value at home, and talk about how to find value here — not just in spite of the hiddenness, but because of it.

Cultural expectations & feminism’s influence

For much of modern history, staying home with your children was the norm. But in recent decades, the cultural message has shifted: women are told that success means being independent, career-driven, self-actualised, and visible in the public sphere. While there’s a lot of beauty in the opportunities now available to us as women, it can also create confusion and guilt when we recognise that are hearts are naturally tethered to home and yet we feel as though by saying yes to home, we are “wasting our potential” or “playing small.”

Many waves of feminism brought important progress: voting rights, workplace protections, and educational opportunities. But along the way, the narrative subtly shifted to suggest that “real empowerment” looks like career success, financial independence, and freedom from traditional roles. In that framework, choosing to stay home — to embrace motherhood as your main vocation — can be seen as backwards, even disempowering. It’s hard to feel proud of something the culture says we should have outgrown.

I am not sure if you’ve felt it, but I have felt the unspoken expectation that women should be mothers and entrepreneurs, and influencers, and side-hustling creatives. Being “just a mum” or “just at home” feels too quiet — too hidden — to count. But that’s a cultural lie, not God’s truth. Faithful homemaking might not be flashy, but it’s foundational. It builds souls. And the people right in our homes, matter just as much and even more than public applause.

Yet because society puts such weight on measurable outcomes, many of us who choose to be stay at home mums feel the need to justify our time: starting a small business, monetising a hobby, or curating a perfect online presence — just to prove that we’re still contributing. But this pressure can steal the peace and purpose of the home-centered calling, turning rest into hustle.

In Titus 2 and Proverbs 31, we see that home-making, child-raising, and nurturing a household are deeply valued by God. Not because they limit a woman, but because they root her in Kingdom work. It’s not about traditionalism — it’s about truth. God created women with the capacity to conceive, carry, nurture, cultivate, and lead in ways that often flourish in the context of home. That calling is not second-class. It’s sacred.

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. Romans 12:2

Lack of Recognition & Value

What I didn’t fully understand when coming home, was that homemaking and motherhood involve countless tasks—cooking, cleaning, childcare, emotional support—but these contributions often go unnoticed. Unlike a job with promotions and recognition, being a homemaker doesn’t come with tangible rewards or external validation, making us easily feel as though our work is invisible and undervalued, if we do not find encouragement and conviction within.

As human beings, we long to know that what we do matters. That our labour isn’t just effort, but impact. When society consistently overlooks or minimises homemaking — treating it as “less than,” unpaid, or unambitious — it chips away at the sense of purpose that comes from it. It becomes hard to keep showing up with heart when the world acts like you’ve opted out of something more “valuable.” Especially when we are also dealing with the chaotic and unpredictable nature of raising young children.

Modern society tends to praise what earns money, what’s seen, and what scales, and in turn we do too. But homemaking is slow. It’s deeply relational, cyclical, and intimate. You don’t “finish” homemaking — you return to the same dishes, the same floors, the same emotional needs every day. Pouring, filing, loving, and caring. Without broader cultural affirmation, it’s easy to internalise the lie that this work isn’t “real” work.

More times than I care to admit, I have wondered Am I doing enough? Am I wasting my potential? Would I be more respected if I were doing something else? It’s especially on the days when fatigue is at an all time high, I am over touched, stimulated and extremely short on patience. I realise that taking the time to build a home requires maximum effort and strategy.

In Colossians 3:23, Paul writes: “Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men.” That includes laundry, nappy changes, making dinner, planning the week ahead. The unseen and the unglamorous. When we lose sight of the fact that homemaking is holy work — offered not just to our families, but to God — we start to believe the world’s narrative instead of God’s.

But here’s the truth:

Homemaking is not small. It’s kingdom work.
It’s soul-tending, heart-shaping, and legacy-building.
It’s building a haven in a chaotic world.
It’s servanthood, often without applause — but always seen by the One who matters most.

And when you feel the sting of being undervalued, remember: even Jesus washed feet. Not for applause, but for love.

Loss of Identity & Independence

Many women struggle with losing a sense of self when they dedicate their lives to their families. Before children, I had a career, hobby, and a clear idea of my creative pursuits. The shift to full-time homemaking felt isolating, especially with a lack of support and a big reduction in my time and energy to pursue creative outlets that would allow me to maintain my personal growth.

Likewise, homemaking can blur your sense of self. Before motherhood or homemaking, my identity was certainly tied to things like a career, personal interests, achievements, and even my name — not just “Mum” or “Babe” or “Where’s my sock?” Suddenly I found that my life had become centered around meeting everyone else’s needs, it can be easy to forget who you are apart from your roles.

Being a homemaker often means surrendering personal time, adult interaction, and even financial independence. You can’t clock out. The truth is that you can’t always make choices for yourself without considering how they affect everyone else. Even simple things — like going to the shop alone — become luxuries. That loss of freedom, if not acknowledged and supported well, can lead to quiet resentment or a sense that your life has been absorbed into everyone else’s.

Society doesn’t celebrate self-giving — it celebrates self-fulfillment and we live in a culture that preaches: Be your own boss. Chase your dreams. Put yourself first. But homemaking often calls you to do the opposite: to put others before yourself, to lay down parts of your life (even temporarily) for the sake of another. That’s radically countercultural — and when the outside world keeps shouting that you’ve “lost yourself,” it can be hard not to wonder if it’s true.

Without margin — emotional, spiritual, or creative — it’s also easy to feel like you’re just surviving, not becoming and thriving. And when you don’t see yourself growing, it can feel like you’re stuck, like who you were is slowly fading without something new rising in its place.

But here’s the truth:

Jesus said, “Whoever loses his life for my sake will find it” (Matthew 10:39). This isn’t about erasing ourselves, but about allowing God to reshape our identity in deeper, eternal ways. While the world tells us to find ourselves by doing more, the Gospel tells a different story: we find our truest self in the laying down, in the unseen faithfulness, in the love that gives.

You have not lost yourself.
You are being formed — in the hidden places, in the daily choices, in the humility of service.
You are becoming more whole, not less — even if it feels like a breaking.
Your identity is not erased by motherhood or homemaking; it is being refined, like gold in the fire.

Your value is not in what you produce or how free you feel — but in who you are, and Whose you are.

Monotony & Mental Load

Homemaking is a loop, not a finish line. You clean the kitchen… only for it to be messy a few minutes later. You fold the laundry… only for more to appear within hours. There’s no final product. No final “ta-da!” moment. It’s a well worn and well lived connected life and the constant repetition can make our work feel invisible — and even pointless at times — even though it’s deeply meaningful.

Also, the mental load of homemaking is relentless. We are the keeper of appointments, groceries, events, clothing sizes, emotional climates, relational tension, snack preferences, and who last took a bath. The planning is a full-time job in itself — and unlike a paid role, there’s no handoff at 5 p.m., no weekend shift rotation. You carry it all, often silently.

I’ve found that it’s also hard to feel creative or alive when I am running on empty. The monotony of routines — breakfast, dishes, naps, dinner, repeat — can numb the soul if there’s no space for rest, worship, or beauty. Without outlets to create, explore, or be poured into, it’s easy to feel like you’re just surviving, not living. That lack of stimulation or personal growth can make the role feel more like duty than delight.

The Truth Beneath the Tiredness

The world may not reward the daily acts of care, but the Kingdom does. In Matthew 6, Jesus reminds us that the Father who sees in secret will reward you. Folding laundry with love, wiping counters with grace, answering the same question a hundred times with patience — these are hidden offerings and in God’s economy, hidden doesn’t mean insignificant.

You are not failing because you’re tired of the monotony.
You are not less holy because you feel overwhelmed.
You are a human carrying sacred work that was never meant to be glamorous — only faithful.

You are building rhythms of safety, love, and consistency for your family. That kind of work is the foundation of flourishing — and though it feels like monotony, it’s actually soul-shaping repetition.

And yes, the mental load is real. But so is the God who offers rest to the weary, and wisdom to those who ask.

Financial Dependence

This is also a tough area for me, because we live in a world that says, “If you’re not contributing financially, you’re not contributing.” It’s subtle, but it’s everywhere — in media, conversations, even internal narratives. When you’re not bringing home an income, it can start to feel like you’re not pulling your weight, even though you are carrying the emotional, physical, and spiritual load of an entire household. When you’re not earning income, spending money — even on small things — can start to feel loaded with guilt or hesitation.

You may second-guess your needs, delay purchases, or feel like you have to justify everything. I have had to become more disciplined in this area which is a good thing, and share honest worries with my husband so that I remember that we are one team.

If you once earned your own income, managed your own schedule, and made financial decisions independently, the shift to relying on someone else — even your loving spouse — can feel like a loss of self. It definitely did for me! I’ve found myself grieving that freedom, even while being very grateful for my current role. Even in the most loving, grace-filled partnerships, money has power. When one person earns and the other doesn’t, there can be subtle dynamics of control, decision-making, or even self-censorship. You might feel like you have “less say” or like your contributions are less tangible — even though they are absolutely vital.

The Truth Beneath the Insecurity

Scripture reminds us in James 1:17 that “Every good and perfect gift is from above.” Your household may be operating on one income, but ultimately, it’s not your spouse who sustains you — it’s God. He is the provider, and He honours the unseen labour of the homemaker just as much as the work of the one earning the paycheck. The Proverbs 31 woman didn’t just bring home income — she brought wisdom, order, nourishment, and strength to her home. That’s kingdom wealth.

You may not sign a paycheck.
But you sign every permission slip, every grocery list, every appointment reminder.
You orchestrate peace, build schedules, soothe hearts, make dinners stretch, and turn houses into homes.

That’s not dependency.
That’s investment.
And it’s legacy work.

Comparison & Social Media Pressure

Social media shows the best 5% of other people’s lives — the spotless kitchens, perfectly dressed and coordinated children, mums who seem to juggle business, baking, Bible study, and beauty sleep without blinking. When I look at my life, it often doesn’t look anything like that. It feels as though I am living in my real 100%: the messes, the meltdowns, the mental fatigue, and this gap creates an ache — not because I am failing, but because I am human.

Homemaking doesn’t often look impressive online. Unless your home is photo-worthy, you have a lot of hired help, or you’re doing a trendy renovation, homemaking work is rarely celebrated on social media. Folding laundry, managing sibling fights, or planning meals on a tight budget aren’t “Instagrammable.” So the slow, sacred faithfulness of your daily work feels again invisible. Forgettable. Less than.

Maybe you see women your age launching businesses, writing books, or speaking at conferences while you’re just trying to get everyone to the breakfast table without tears and spilt milk. I tell you, those mornings can sometimes send me right over the edge and I start to wonder: Am I wasting my life? Should I be doing more? It’s easy to forget that your “more” might not be loud or public — but it is just as meaningful.

The Truth Beneath the Scroll

In Galatians 6:4, Paul says, “Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else.”
God didn’t call you to someone else’s life. He called you to this home, these children, this season. Not to impress the world, but to serve Him in secret — where true treasures are stored.

You don’t need to look like her.
You don’t need to do what she’s doing.
You are not behind. You are not less.

If you’re building a home of peace, if you’re shaping hearts with gentleness, if you’re staying faithful in small, unseen ways — you’re doing holy work.

Social media might not clap for you.
But heaven sees.
And heaven applauds.

Spiritual & Societal Misalignment

For Christian women, homemaking can be viewed as a calling, but modern culture often dismisses faith-based perspectives on motherhood and family life. I feel the tension between my biblical values and society’s messaging that a career is the only path to fulfillment. Society says: Be independent. Be ambitious. Be seen. The Gospel whispers: Be faithful. Be humble. Serve in secret.

These two voices aren’t always at war — but they rarely walk hand-in-hand. When you choose homemaking as your calling, you might feel like you’re swimming against the current of modern culture, where success is often measured by visibility, productivity, and external achievement.

Choosing to stay home, serve your family, and live quietly before the Lord is sometimes seen as regressive or even oppressive. The modern narrative says, You deserve more than dirty nappies and dishes. And that message can make even the most joyful homemaker second-guess herself. It’s hard to feel empowered when your life looks so radically different from the cultural script.

When your life is rooted in spiritual conviction, but the world doesn’t understand or value those convictions, it’s easy to feel isolated. Homemaking, done unto the Lord, is an act of worship. But worship isn’t always recognised. It doesn’t win awards or get likes. That can be disheartening — unless your eyes stay fixed on Jesus.

Sometimes, even Christian spaces elevate platformed ministry over quiet obedience. You might feel less “useful” because you’re not leading a study, writing a book, or starting a business — even though you’re building a home, sowing Scripture into your children, and laying down your life daily. It’s a lie that says only public faithfulness matters.

The Truth Beneath the Tension

You were never meant to fit perfectly here.
Your calling as a homemaker — shaped by the Spirit, anchored in Scripture — will look strange in a culture that chases self-glory.

But that doesn’t make it less sacred.

It makes it set apart.

You’re not behind. You’re not small.
You’re right where God has placed you — and that is holy ground.

Reframing our perspective

Homemaking will rarely get a standing ovation from the outside world.
There are no medals for folding the fiftieth load of laundry, no awards for whispering peace into a toddler’s tantrum, no public applause for creating a home where hearts can exhale.

But there is a quiet glory here.

A sacredness in the slow.
A strength in the unseen.
A worship woven into the wiping, the washing, the welcoming.

When we reframe our perspective, we begin to see homemaking not as a lesser path, but as a deeply formational one — shaping souls, stewarding peace, and partnering with God in the hidden rhythms of redemption.

We are not “just” at home.
We are curating spaces where people are known, nourished, and nurtured.
We are writing legacy in the ordinary.

And maybe the world will never quite understand.
But heaven does.

God sees every quiet sacrifice, every faithful choice, every moment when you lay down your life in love — and He calls it beautiful.

So let’s lift our eyes.
Let’s reframe the work.
Let’s remember that this, too, is Kingdom ground.

You are not less because you are at home.
You are planted here — with purpose.

And that, dear friend, is a holy calling.

How to nurture a boys heart

Published on May 21, 2025March 20, 2026 by Alethea AwukuLeave a comment

Nurturing my boys’ hearts is one of the most important parts of my role as their mother. As a homeschooling mum of three boys, my husband and I have the privilege of being with them daily, shaping their character and guiding them toward Christ and into being strong boys and eventually men.

Homeschooling gives us a beautiful window of time and influence to not only teach academics, but to shepherd the hearts of our sons with intention. I always remind myself that It’s not just about teaching maths and reading—it’s about helping them develop a heart that seeks after God, is resilient, loves others well, and stands firm in the Christian faith. In a world that will constantly try to define them by achievements and success, I want them to know that their true worth is found in being sons of the true King.

Seeing their hearts

When we started our homeschool journey I was so geared toward only building them up academically, but I very quickly realised that in order to build a meaningful learning experience for them, I would need to win their hearts over with love, friendship and trust. Building a relationship with each boy where I do my best to see them for their individual strengths and personalities would help strengthen their sense of safety and confidence. It isn’t easy, because most of our days are quite loud and feel chaotic, and so the last thing I want to do is notice and compliment all the great and fun things about them (just being honest!) It’s a discipline that I am working on being more intentional in.

It’s also really easy to focus on correcting behaviour all the time, but true growth happens when we understand the heart behind it. When a boy is acting out or withdrawing, it’s often a signal of something deeper—confusion, frustration, or even a need for connection. Being intentional in this area for me means, trying my best to remember to pause, ask questions, and listen with grace.

“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” – Proverbs 15:1

Grace-based correction—rooted in relationship—helps a boy know that he’s loved, even when he makes mistakes.

Encouraging emotional honesty and empathy

Many boys are naturally active, physical learners, but they also carry deep emotions—sometimes masked by noise or movement. We’ve had to learn to give our sons language for their feelings. This helps them to communicate in a more self controlled way when they are feeling an emotion.

Creating an atmosphere of love and grace at home is also essential. I want my boys to know that our home is a safe place where they can be vulnerable, share their fears, and ask hard questions. I remind them that no mistake is too big for God’s grace and that nothing they do can separate them from His love—or mine. By showing them unconditional love, I hope to give them a glimpse of the immeasurable love of their Heavenly Father.

Conversations

Intentional conversations are another way I nurture their hearts. Whether it’s around the dinner table, during a car ride, or at bedtime, I try to engage their minds and hearts with meaningful discussions. We talk about faith, courage, kindness, and even the struggles they face, or anything random that may come to mind. I want them to know that their thoughts and feelings matter, and more importantly, that God cares about every detail of their lives.

Life skills

In raising boys, we’re not just preparing them for independence—we’re shaping their character and hearts for the life God is calling them to live. Teaching life skills within the rhythm of home and homeschool life is a sacred opportunity: a chance to model servant leadership, responsibility, and integrity. The boys are involved with learning to cook, tidying the garden and house, caring for each other and discussing life matters. As we teach our sons to work with their hands and think with wisdom, our desire and prayer is that it will help them grow into men who are not only capable but compassionate—anchored in faith, and willing to serve and work hard.

Service

Encouraging them to serve others is another way to shape their hearts for Christ. I remind them that true strength is found in humility and that leadership comes through service. Whether it’s helping a younger sibling, assisting a friend, or participating at church, I want them to experience the joy that comes from putting others before themselves. Jesus was the ultimate servant, and I pray my boys will follow in His footsteps.

Above all, I entrust their hearts to the Lord. I can do my best to teach, guide, and love them, but ultimately, their walk with God is their own. My prayer is that they will grow into men who love Jesus deeply, stand firm in truth, and live with integrity. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” That is my hope and prayer for my boys—that as they journey through life, their hearts will grow to be steadfast in Christ.

Tips for a productive and haven like feel at home.

Published on May 21, 2025March 20, 2026 by Alethea AwukuLeave a comment

Hey mama!

I hope you’re well!

As we journey together through the beautiful and sometimes challenging adventure of learning and being at home together as a family, I find myself reflecting on how our physical environment profoundly impacts our ability to absorb knowledge, be inspired, feel free and grow. Just as God created a world of order and beauty for us to thrive in, we too can create a haven of peace, order, inspiration and productivity within our homes.

Today, I want to share some tips on doing just that- specifically, setting up a productive and clutter-free learning and living environment. I hope you’ll be able to add some of these ideas into your own home!

Embrace the sanctuary of learning

When it comes to being inspired to learn (for our children and for ourselves), first and foremost, it’s important to designate a specific area for this no matter how small your space is. This space should be a sanctuary, a place where your heart and mind can focus solely on the task at hand. Choose a spot in your home that is quiet and comfortable, away from the hustle and bustle of daily life. Just as Jesus often retreated to quiet places to pray and reflect, we too need a quiet place to concentrate and learn.

This intentional space becomes a sanctuary where distractions are minimised, allowing our minds to concentrate fully on the task at hand, whether it be absorbing knowledge, engaging in heartfelt prayer, or nurturing a child’s curiosity. A dedicated environment fosters discipline and consistency. For children, having a defined learning area signals the importance of focus and establishes a routine that supports their development. By setting apart these sacred spaces, we honour our commitment to learning and spiritual growth, creating a haven where we and our children can flourish well.

Keep it simple and organised

Keeping our homes simple and organised is a beautiful reflection of the order and peace God desires for our lives. I don’t know about you, but a well-organised home reduces stress for me and allows us all to focus on what truly matters – our relationships, our faith, and our personal growth. This is an area that I am particularly keen on for the children. By eliminating the clutter that they can see, I am trying very hard to create a serene environment where their minds and spirits are not overstimulated, but feel at rest and rejuvenated. This simplicity also helps us to be better stewards of the blessings we have been given, as everything has its place and purpose.

Minimise distractions and digital discipline

The world is full of distractions, and our homes if they are to be a place of tranquility can reflect the opposite which is calmness and peace.

Remember the words of Psalm 46:10, “Be still, and know that I am God.” In this stillness, we can hear His guidance in our hearts. To keep digital distractions at bay and cultivate a peaceful home, we really try to establish thoughtful boundaries and practices around the use of technology. We work hard to designate specific times and areas in our home that are free from electronic devices, such as meal times, family gatherings, and bedrooms. This not only reduces distractions but also fosters deeper connections and more meaningful interactions. We encourage a lot of activities like reading, playing games, or engaging in conversations.

With the boys tablets (which they use occasionally for learning), we use tools and apps that help manage screen time, such as setting limits on usage and scheduling downtime for all devices. Turn off non-essential notifications to prevent constant interruptions, and consider creating a central charging station where devices can be stored out of sight when not in use. Encourage family members to be mindful of their screen habits by setting a good example yourself and discussing the importance of being present and engaged in the moment.

Regular decluttering

Regular decluttering is essential for maintaining a peaceful and calm home, as it reflects the order and simplicity God desires for our lives. In our daily walk with Christ, we are called to cast off anything that hinders us and run the race with perseverance (Hebrews 12:1). In the same way, decluttering our physical space can help us to remove the unnecessary and focus on what truly matters. When we rid our homes of excess, we create an environment where our minds can rest and our spirits can breathe. This simplicity mirrors the peace that surpasses all understanding, which God grants us when we align our lives with His purpose.

Moreover, regular decluttering allows us to be better stewards of the blessings God has given us. When our homes are cluttered, we can feel overwhelmed and distracted, unable to fully appreciate the gifts around us. By organising and simplifying our spaces, we can cultivate gratitude for the things we truly need and love. This practice not only enhances our physical surroundings but also nurtures a heart of contentment and mindfulness. As we create a serene and orderly home, we open the door to more meaningful interactions with our loved ones and deepen our relationship with God, embracing the harmony He intends for our lives.

A Personal Touch

Finally, personalise your space with meaningful items – a plant, a family photo, or a piece of Scripture art. These touches make our spaces inviting and remind us of God’s presence and love. Ensure these items inspire rather than distract, maintaining the balance of beauty and simplicity. I have written a blog post on cultivating a Christ centered home.

Adding a personal touch to our homes helps maintain a peaceful and calm environment by infusing our living spaces with reminders of God’s love and the unique journey He has set before us. When we incorporate meaningful items such as family photos, scripture verses, or cherished mementos, we create a sanctuary that reflects our values and faith. These personal touches serve as daily reminders of the blessings and memories we hold dear, anchoring us in gratitude and joy.

A home adorned with personal touches becomes a haven where our spirits can rest and rejuvenate. Each piece of meaningful decor, whether it’s a handcrafted quilt, a favourite piece of art, or a vase of fresh flowers, contributes to a sense of belonging and comfort. These items tell the story of who we are and what we cherish, creating a warm and inviting atmosphere for ourselves and our loved ones. In this sacred space, we are reminded of God’s intimate involvement in our lives. By intentionally curating our surroundings with love and care, we cultivate a home that not only reflects our personal journey but also becomes a beacon of God’s grace and tranquility.

So mama, as you set up your learning and living environment, remember that God is with you in every step of your journey.

With love and blessings,

Alethea

Easy and simple vanilla cake that your family will love

Published on April 11, 2025 by Alethea Awuku2 Comments

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A beautiful and simple vanilla cake recipe that is a firm family favourite! Guaranteed a soft and moist cake 🙂

There’s something timeless and nostalgic about the smell of vanilla cake baking in the oven, with the aroma of nutmeg filling the air. In our family, it’s more than just a sweet treat—it’s a tradition, a quiet ritual that brings us together in the most comforting way.

Every few weeks, I’ll pull out my recipe book and bake. It’s simple: flour, sugar, eggs, vanilla, nutmeg and love. Since becoming a mother, I have really enjoyed being in the kitchen to cook and bake. Baking this cake isn’t about perfection. It’s about the anticipation as the sweet, familiar scent wafts through the house and pulls everyone in, little eyes waiting impatiently and expectantly for that first slice.

Sometimes, we bake it for birthdays, and I’ll decorate it, sometimes, just because it’s a rainy day and we need a little warmth. But no matter the reason, that cake always becomes a centerpiece of connection—something we gather around with tea or milk.

Baking, in its own quiet way, is a blessing. It slows us down. It invites us to care—for the food, for the process, and most importantly, for each other. In a world that moves fast, that simple vanilla cake reminds us of the beauty in slowing down and savouring the sweet things in life—together.

I hope you’ll enjoy baking yours!

Adding nutmeg is optional. We love it!

Ingredients:

3 Eggs Sugar
1cup Oil – ¾cup
Milk – ½cup
Nutmeg – 1tsp
All purpose flour 1½cup
Baking powder 2tsp
Vanilla essence – 1tsp

How to build a home schedule that works

Published on February 26, 2025March 20, 2026 by Alethea AwukuLeave a comment

If you’re anything like me, juggling the homeschooling of three energetic boys and in general young children can sometimes be so overwhelming. Between the teaching, snack breaks, constant tidying up of little people and cooking, it can feel like the day is running us instead of the other way around. But fear not! I’m here to share some tips on how to build a home schedule that actually works—at least most of the time.

Be flexible

First things first, let’s talk about flexibility. As much as I love the idea of a perfectly structured day, with every minute accounted for, I’ve learned that life with kids, especially boys, just doesn’t work that way. There’s always going to be something that throws a wrench into our plans, whether it’s spilled food, an unexpected discovery of a “treasure” in the garden, or a tired and unmotivated gloom of the day. So, while it’s important to have a schedule, it’s equally important to hold it loosely. I like to think of our schedule now as more of a guideline than a strict timetable.

Create blocks of time

One thing that has been a game-changer for us is creating blocks of time instead of specific time slots. For example, we have a morning block for our core subjects like devotion, maths, reading, penmanship etc, an afternoon block for creative activities, and an evening block for family time. This way, if we spend a little extra time on a science experiment (or cleaning up from said experiment), it doesn’t throw the whole day off. It gives us the flexibility to dive deeper into subjects that capture the boys’ interest without feeling rushed.

Another tip is to incorporate plenty of breaks. Boys, in particular, seem to have an endless supply of energy, and expecting them to sit still for hours on end is a recipe for disaster (I’ve tried and learnt my lesson)! We do short bursts of focused learning followed by movement breaks. This may mean a quick game of hide and seek, a workout break, a few minutes on the trampoline, or even a spontaneous dance party in the living room with a Youtube video. These breaks help them burn off energy and come back to their work refreshed and ready to concentrate. I’ll always communicate to them and let them know what’s coming next in the day. This helps to prevent tantrums and resistance when it’s time to move on to the next activity.

Time for ourselves

It’s also crucial to build in some time for ourselves – even though most of the time it feels absolutely impossible! This season simply doesn’t permit me to have my free time as I would like all the time so I am learning that it is possible to infuse things that I enjoy throughout my day. Considering this as self care really helps me to know that I am not counting myself out of the family schedule and planning.

Whether it’s a quiet cup of tea before the boys wake up, a quick workout, some time spent in prayer and reflection, spraying a little perfume, a 5 minute make up routine, or putting on smart clothes for the day, taking care of ourselves even in the littlest way helps us to take better care of our families Remember, you can’t pour from an empty cup. So, carve out those moments of rest and rejuvenation whenever you can.

Use tools to stay on track

Using tools to stay on track can be incredibly helpful in maintaining a sense of order in the home. I have found that keeping a family calendar on the fridge helps everyone stay informed about daily plans and responsibilities. Additionally, a simple to-do list or planner can bring structure to the day and prevent tasks from feeling overwhelming. Personally, I enjoy using a prayer journal alongside my schedule—it not only keeps me organized but also allows me to reflect on God’s presence in my day-to-day life. Whether it’s a digital app or a traditional planner, having a system in place makes a big difference in staying consistent and finding peace amidst the busy routine.

Reassess and adjust regularly

Reassessing and adjusting regularly is crucial to maintaining a healthy and sustainable home schedule. It’s one of the things that I really struggled with initially, but the reality is that life is constantly changing—children grow, schedules shift, and unexpected circumstances arise. Taking time each month or even each week to evaluate what’s working and what’s causing stress can make a big difference. I like to pray over my schedule, asking God for wisdom to discern what needs to be adjusted. If a routine is feeling burdensome, it might be time to simplify or delegate tasks. Being flexible allows for grace in our daily lives, ensuring that our schedule serves us rather than us becoming slaves to it. Adjustments are not signs of failure but of growth and intentionality in creating a home filled with peace and joy.

So there you are! A few tips which I hope you’ll find helpful and encouraging. Building a home schedule that works is all about finding what fits your family’s rhythm and being willing to adjust as needed. With a little planning, a lot of flexibility, and a healthy dose of humor, you can create a routine that keeps everyone learning, laughing, and loving the homeschooling and home life. Keep up the great work, mama! You’ve got this.

Dealing with monotony and routine as a stay at home mum

Published on February 26, 2025March 20, 2026 by Alethea AwukuLeave a comment

Being a stay-at-home mum is a beautiful calling, but it often comes with the challenge of monotony. The endless cycle of laundry, cooking, cleaning, and always being switched on to care for our children can sometimes feel repetitive and even overwhelming. It’s easy to lose sight of the bigger picture when daily tasks seem to blur into one another. However, as Christian mothers, we are reminded that even in the most mundane moments, God is at work in our lives and in the lives of our families. If we truly look, we’ll find Him.

One of the most encouraging truths in Scripture is found in Colossians 3:23: “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.” This verse reminds us that our work at home is not insignificant. Every nappy changed, every meal prepared, and every book read is an opportunity to serve God and our families with love and dedication. When we shift our perspective to see our daily tasks as acts of worship and privilege, we can find deeper meaning in what might otherwise seem mundane.

Gratitude helps

One way to combat the monotony of routine is to cultivate a heart of gratitude. Philippians 4:6 encourages us to bring everything to God with thanksgiving. Taking a moment each day to thank Him for the little blessings—our children’s laughter, the comfort of our home, the provision of food, hot water, clothes—can really transform our outlook. Gratitude refocuses our hearts on the goodness of God rather than the repetitiveness of our routines, and it helps us to see abundance rather than lack.

Spiritual renewal

As mothers, we pour so much into our families, but we must also allow ourselves to be filled. I’ll hold my hand up and be the first to admit that sometimes sheer exhaustion makes me demotivated to pour into myself spiritually, but spending some time in prayer, reading scripture, or even listening to worship music while doing household chores does nourish our souls and keep us connected to God. When we prioritise our relationship with Him, we are better equipped to handle the demands of daily life with patience, wisdom and joy.

Building and nurturing friendships

Finding community is another key aspect of overcoming monotony. Proverbs 27:17 says, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” Whether through church groups, Bible studies, or simply connecting with other mothers, having a support system helps us navigate the challenges of motherhood. Sharing experiences, praying together, and encouraging one another can breathe new life into our routines. I’ve personally found that taking some time to speak with and laugh with friends helps me to reconnect with a different part of myself, which in turn helps me to feel refreshed.

Monotony and simple living can also be a gift to us. In a world that constantly seeks distraction and busyness, the slower rhythms of homemaking allow us to cultivate a heart of peace and contentment. When we embrace the simplicity of our daily lives, we are able to focus on what truly matters—our relationship with God and the love we share with our families. God often speaks to us in the quiet moments, in the steady rhythms of daily life, reminding us that He is present in every small act of love and service.

A quick tasty crepe recipe

Published on February 26, 2025February 26, 2025 by Alethea AwukuLeave a comment

There’s nothing quite like the joy of watching my boys devour a plate of homemade food. Every other day, I fry up a batch of delicious crepes to help fill the hunger gaps between breakfast and lunch, and they never fail to bring smiles and excitement to their faces. These crepes are light, slightly sweet, and perfect for rolling up with any number of delicious fillings (we love bananas, blueberries, strawberries, Nutella and honey). Best of all, they come together quickly, making them a great go-to recipe for our busy mornings of play and homeschooling.

Crepe recipe

The recipe is simple, using cupboard staples that I always have on hand. Here’s what you’ll need:

1 cup all-purpose flour
3 eggs
1 1/4 cups milk
2 tablespoons melted butter or oil
2 tablespoon sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 teaspoon nutmeg
A pinch of salt

To make the crepes, start by whisking the eggs and milk together in a bowl. Add in the flour, sugar, salt, vanilla extract, nutmeg, and melted butter or oil, mixing until smooth. The batter should be thin, almost like heavy cream. Heat a lightly greased non-stick pan over medium heat and pour in just enough batter to coat the bottom, swirling it around for an even layer. Cook for some seconds until the edges lift slightly, then flip and cook for another 30 seconds. Stack them up as you go, and they’ll stay nice and warm, and fill your home with a sweet aroma.

My boys love these crepes with a drizzle of honey, a sprinkle of cinnamon sugar, or a spread of jam. Sometimes, we even get fancy with Nutella and fresh berries. They’re incredibly versatile and can be made sweet or savory depending on what we have on hand. Whether you’re making them as a quick snack or a special treat, these crepes are sure to be a hit in any household!

Beyond just making a delicious snack, preparing crepes together has become a cherished tradition in our home. My boys love to help mix the batter, pour it into the pan, and even try their hand at flipping. These moments in the kitchen aren’t just about cooking—they’re about laughter, learning, and creating lasting memories. When I think about my grandma, one of the things I remember her for is for the baking that she did, and how she put so much love and care into making cakes for others. I hope that one day, the boys will pass down this simple recipe to their own families, remembering the warmth and joy we shared while making them.

How to raise confident and resilient boys

Published on January 22, 2025March 20, 2026 by Alethea Awuku1 Comment

Raising confident and resilient boys in today’s world is challenging, unpredictable, full of constant adjustments, chaotic, downright exhausting, deeply fulfilling, messy and full of lots of teaching moments. As a homeschooling mum to three boys who are still babies to me (6,4 and 2 years) I am slowly learning that raising strong, capable young boys into men has become one of our aims. This isn’t about giving them an ego boost or bubble-wrapping them from failure, but about teaching them how to handle themselves when life’s inevitable bumps occur, and to deal with imperfections and bruises with grace, grit, and from a strong foundation in Christ.

Perseverance

One of the first and constant lessons that we are currently working on, is that failure and imperfection isn’t the enemy. When they get answers wrong, make a mistake or do something imperfectly, their natural response is to shut down, give up or walk away in tears because of the feelings of frustration and disappointment. In our home, my husband and I are consistent in pushing back against this and communicating to them that we celebrate mistakes (sometimes with a little treat) because they are an opportunity for us to learn and grow stronger.

When my first born son struggles with a concept during our learning time, or he colours out of the line during art time, we respond with enthusiasm because we have a chance to try again, and sometimes that is what life gives us- a chance to try again. We encourage him to know that it is ok to feel what he is feeling, but that he should never quit on himself. Resilience isn’t about never falling down; it’s about getting back up, dusting off the sawdust, and trusting that God will guide and strengthen us as we try again.

Confidence, too, is something that we are nurturing. As our boys are very young, we offer this through constant praise the majority of the time because I recognise that our hearts need to know that we are seen by those closest to us, and as their mama, it is my joy to let them know that I see them, love them, celebrate and affirm them.

There are moments when we explain that as they grow, their confidence wont come from constant praise but from real accomplishments and faith in God’s plan. So we do occasionally let them struggle and push through math problems, writing that tricky word for what feels like the hundredth time, and learning how to work together to serve one another during meal times (putting cutlery out, and setting the table). When they achieve something after working for it, the confidence sticks because they know they earned it through perseverance and God’s strength.

Service unto each other and strangers

My boys are very visual, and I quickly learnt that in order to capture their attention and imagination, it would be very helpful to give them a vision of the kind of boy and man that God is helping them to become day by day.

We usually say something along the lines of:

“God has created you for a purpose, and no challenge is too big when you walk in His strength. Keep trusting Him, keep learning, and keep growing into the man He is shaping you to be.“

“You are a warrior for Christ, and true strength comes from faith, kindness, and perseverance. No matter what happens, remember that God is always with you, guiding your steps.”

“When you do hard things, God is helping you grow stronger and stronger”.

We are all naturally self centered, and children demonstrate that to the highest degree because they are children(!), have constant legitimate needs and are under developed in their understanding, maturity and expression of their needs.

Another one of the areas that I am working on when it comes to raising resilient sons is teaching them to serve each other and other people. Serving each other doesn’t always feel pleasant because they bicker, fight and compete against one another, but by learning the discipline of service to one another, they fulfill a really important goal of our family which is to love and work together as one in our home.

When they understand that their strength, and their faculties (hands, feet, eyes, speech) are meant to be used for God’s glory it gives them an external motivation. So gentle reminders are given when we are at home and out in public to help them think outside of themselves and to see the world and people around them—whether that means helping to open the door for someone or comforting a friend who’s has been hurt— it’s all to help them develop a deep, quiet confidence that isn’t rooted in arrogance, but in purpose. Plus, let’s be honest, there’s nothing quite as humbling as helping to clean up after your brother or others! Jesus Himself taught us that true leadership comes through service, and I want my boys to follow His example, and understand the inner strength it takes to think of others.

It’s OK to cry

We are at a stage in life with our boys where crying is the resounding sound in our home, so let’s talk about emotions for a second. We are balancing the importance of them talking with us when they are upset over screaming and shouting. Simultaneously we acknowledge that being strong doesn’t mean stuffing down their feelings and pretending that they are ok when they aren’t.

Boys also need space to express frustration, sadness, and even joy without being told to “be strong.” In our home, we encourage each other to talk things through—sometimes by removing them from a tense environment because resilience isn’t about hiding emotions but trying our best to handle them in a Christ-centered way. Praying together, reading God’s Word, and seeking His wisdom helps us all to process our emotions in a way that strengthens our faith and character.

Role Models

Positive role models also play a crucial role in building resilience. Boys need to see strong, faith-filled men who exemplify integrity, perseverance, and humility. Whether it’s their father, a pastor, a coach, or a trusted mentor, having godly role models shows them what it means to live with strength and grace under pressure. When they see men who turn to God in times of struggle, who admit their mistakes, and who stand firm in their beliefs, they learn to do the same. Surrounding them with wise, godly counsel reinforces the values we teach at home and gives them examples to emulate as they grow. As they are young, we have begun that journey for them through stories and books, as well as spending quality time with daddy.

Series and books that they enjoy are Bibleman, Veggie Tales, Emmanuel’s Dream: The True Story of Emmanuel Ofosu Yeboah, Ten Boys Who Made a Difference (Lightkeepers) and much more.

Proverbs 22:6 reminds us to “train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” At the end of the day, our goal isn’t to raise tough guys; it’s to raise kind, courageous, and faithful men who will stand firm in a shaky world. With a lot of prayer, patience, and probably a lot more mistakes, I trust that God will shape them into exactly who He created them to be, and we look forward to celebrating the good fruit that comes from their lives!

When doubt creeps in: Encouragement for the homeschooling mum who feels she might have made the wrong choice

Published on January 22, 2025 by Alethea Awuku1 Comment

I don’t know about you, but there are some days when I look around at the chaos of our homeschool and wonder, What in the world is going on? The boys are arguing, fighting and screaming over toys, I am getting resistance with sit down book work and reading, and my youngest is determined to turn all the walls of my house into his museum of drawings. Meanwhile, I’m nursing a cold cup of coffee, a very messy kitchen (even though it was cleaned the night before), and sleepiness from waking up at 4:45am just to get a head start on the day before everyone wakes up. With fatigue, strain, frustration and overwhelm at an all time high, its easy to question whether we made the right decision to homeschool.

Some days, these are my thoughts, so first of all, I want to assure you that if you have felt any of this, you are not alone. There is no homeschooling mum on this planet (or probably even in the universe, if alien homeschooling mums exist) who hasn’t wondered at least once if she made a monumental mistake. It’s normal. We’ve all had those moments of doubt—when the curriculum doesn’t click, when the kids resist every lesson, or when we constantly feel that we are not enough. But let me remind you of something that God has been whispering to my heart lately: His grace is sufficient. Even on the hard days. Especially on the hard days. Here’s a beautiful hymn for you to tuck away in your heart.

I get it, though. It’s easy to romanticise homeschooling before we start. We picture morning devotionals with well-behaved children, afternoons spent exploring nature, and evenings reading classic literature in a cosy setting. Reality looks a little more like Weetabix smeared on every surface, (AND THEN DRYING IN A BLINK OF AN EYE!!), disruptive food requests every. five. minutes, and a “read-aloud” where you’re the only one actually listening to the story. And yet, even in the mess, there are so many beautiful moments waiting to be noticed.

A few tips and encouragement

When doubt comes knocking, I’ve found it helps to revisit why my husband and I chose this path in the first place. For me, it’s about nurturing my boys’ hearts as much as their minds. It’s about weaving our faith into their education and having the freedom to teach them in a way that honours their unique gifts and strengths. Yes, even when those gifts include making fart noises during lessons. (Lord, give me strength with these boys.)

Sometimes we just need to change our perspective. If a lesson is flopping or the kids are bouncing off the walls, maybe it’s time to pause the plan for the day. Go outside for a walk (which is my absolute go to), build a blanket fort, or get in the kitchen and bake and call it “life skills.” It all still counts. I have learnt that homeschooling isn’t about sticking rigidly to a schedule; it’s about creating a life where learning happens naturally and joyfully—well, most of the time for the children, and for us as mums.

Another thing that helps is connecting with other homeschooling mums. Join a co-op, find a support group, or just call that one friend who always “gets it.” There’s something so comforting about hearing someone else say, “Oh, me too!” We were made for community, and sharing our struggles often lightens the load.

Grace is available

Don’t forget to extend yourself some grace. God didn’t call us to this journey because He thought we would do it perfectly. He called us and wants us to depend upon Him every step of the way. Your children don’t need a perfect teacher; they need you. They need your love, your laughter, and yes, even your occasional meltdowns. (I firmly believe that seeing us apologise, pray for strength, handle difficult moments and regroup is an important life lesson for them.)

So, on the days when you’re tempted to throw in the towel, remember this: You are planting seeds, even when you can’t see the harvest yet. The hard days are part of the story, but they’re not the whole story. And who knows? Maybe one day, your children will look back on these years and thank you for the gift of learning together. They’ll remember a specific day (that you thought was pretty awful) and say that was one of the best moments of their lives. Or at least in my case they’ll remember how to bake really good cakes. Either way, you’re doing just fine, Mama. Keep going. ❤️

Creative Christmas prep ideas for mums

Published on December 19, 2024March 20, 2026 by Alethea AwukuLeave a comment

Hey mama, it’s that time of year again!

The air is getting cooler and crisper, the days shorter, darker, and our online feeds slowly filling up with all the Christmas inspiration. Yes, the festive period is upon us! Preparing our homes and hearts for the Christmas season can be such a meaningful and joyful time and in this post I’ll be sharing a few creative and unique ways to make this festive period extra special for you and your family, as I try to do the same for mine!

I hope you’ll find some inspiration that you can personalise!

1. Create a “gratitude and prayer garland”

This year, we are getting hands on with our decorating, and having fun expressing thankfulness by making prayer garlands. Transform a simple decoration into a daily practice of gratitude and prayer by cutting out paper strips in festive colors and encourage each family member to write down something that they are thankful for or a prayer intention every day. Then, link the strips together to form a garland. Each link represents a moment of gratitude or a heartfelt prayer. By Christmas, you’ll have a beautiful, meaningful decoration that wraps your home in love and thankfulness. Hang it somewhere where everyone can see, and maybe even make a tradition of reading them all aloud on Christmas Eve.

2. Host a nativity play at home

We love a good role play in our house, and my boys get excited at any chance to build houses, forts, and play pretend. At this time of year, you could turn your living room into a stage for a homemade Nativity play! Get your children involved in making simple costumes and props. Let them choose their roles—perhaps one of your children wants to be a shepherd, another an angel, and another might want to narrate the story. Rehearse together and perform it for family and friends. This activity not only brings the Christmas story to life for everyone but also creates a cherished family tradition. Plus, it’s a wonderful way to remind everyone of the true meaning of Christmas in a fun and engaging way.

3. Set Up a “Christmas kindness countdown”

I love that the festive season encourages us to not only enjoy with our families, but to think of ways that we can serve others. In our home, we have been focusing on service, and ways to make someone feel loved. The boys are more excited about the toys that they will receive for Christmas so this activity is perfect. Instead of the usual Advent calendar, you can create a “Christmas Kindness Countdown” where each day involves a small act of kindness. You then write down different activities on slips of paper and place them in numbered envelopes or boxes. Activities can include things like making a card for a neighbour, donating gently used toys to charity, baking cookies for locals and church members, or even calling a relative to spread some cheer. This helps instill a spirit of giving, and compassion in our children and shows them that Christmas is about spreading love and joy to others.

4. Start a Christmas book tradition

If you love books, and your children do this could be the perfect time to build a collection of Christmas-themed books that you only bring out during the festive season. Each evening, you could gather around the tree or in a cosy space to read a different story. You can include classics along with stories that highlight the nativity. This tradition fosters a love of reading, creates cozy family moments, and helps children connect with the stories and values of Christmas. Over the years, these books will become cherished parts of your family’s holiday heritage. We are book lovers so this will be perfect for us to introduce!

Some of the books that we’ll be reading:

A very noisy Christmas

The nativity

5. Create a “journey to Bethlehem” display

Dedicate a space in your home to a “Journey to Bethlehem” display that evolves throughout Advent. I saw this stunning nativity display in Home Sense last year and I am still kicking myself for not getting it. It was so beautiful and I wanted to use it as part of our festive decorations to help point the kids hearts to our wonderful Saviour. So you could start with a bare stable and gradually add figures of Mary, Joseph, and the shepherds moving closer to the stable each day. Incorporate readings from the Bible and reflections on each character’s journey and faith. This daily routine helps reinforce the nativity story deep into our hearts and makes the anticipation of Christmas more meaningful as our children witness the progression of the journey to the birth of Jesus.

6. Host a Christmas craft night

Children love crafts, and it is such a great and easy way to spend time having fun together. Set aside one evening a week for a family Christmas craft night. Gather materials to make ornaments, wreaths, and other decorations. Listen to Christmas music, sip on hot chocolate, grab some snacks and let the creativity flow! These homemade crafts can be used to decorate your home or given as heartfelt gifts to friends and family. This tradition not only beautifies your home but also provides a wonderful opportunity for family bonding and creates lasting memories.

7. Set up a giving jar

Place a large jar in a central location in your home and label it the “Giving Jar.” Throughout the holiday season, encourage family members to contribute spare change or small bills. At the end of the season, decide together which charity or family in need you’ll donate the collected money to. This simple act teaches children about generosity and the importance of helping others, in line with the Kindness Countdown.

8. Plan a “Silent Night” evening

I saw this idea and loved it! We’ll definitely be looking to add this to our Christmas tradition. Choose one evening to turn off all electronic devices and enjoy a “Silent Night” together. Light candles, play soft Christmas music, and spend the evening in quiet activities like reading Christmas stories, doing puzzles, or simply talking. This can be a peaceful retreat from the hustle and bustle of the season which is filled with socialising and shopping, and provides a chance to reconnect and unwind with loved ones. Equally, joining a carols night

9. Create Personalised Christmas cards

Instead of buying pre-made cards, gather your family to create personalised Christmas cards for friends and relatives. Use craft supplies like stamps, stickers, and glitter to make each card unique. Include a heartfelt message or a family update inside. This activity allows for creativity and thoughtfulness, and recipients will surely appreciate the time and effort put into each card.

Another meaningful practice is to focus on the importance of presence over perfection. It’s easy to become overwhelmed by the desire to create the perfect Christmas experience for your family. But remember, the most cherished memories often come from simple moments spent together. For example, instead of stressing over a perfectly decorated home, involve your children in the decorating process. Embrace the imperfections and enjoy the laughter and creativity that come with it. Or, set aside time for a family evening of board games or baking cookies, without worrying about the mess. By prioritising presence, we can give our hearts the chance to breathe, and just enjoy the gift and blessings that we have.

I hope these ideas inspire you!

Are there any that you would do? or share what you currently do with your family at Christmas time, I’d love to know.