I’ll be the first to admit that I did not even know what home education is and had never heard the term until recently. So if you are a complete newbie, as I was just two years ago then welcome! You are in the perfect place of discovery as we journey together into the amazing and endless world of our children’s learning. In this blog post, I’ll be sharing about the world of home education in the UK and exploring the benefits and challenges to this alternative educational path.

What is Home Education?

In recent years, what we had known to be the only path to educate and learn completely changed. Lockdown in the UK (due to the Covid pandemic) forced everyone to stay at home, and for those with children to review and plan for their learning in a new and foreign way. We all experienced the landscape of education being transformed on a mass scale and this lead to an increasing number of families in the UK choosing home education as a viable alternative to traditional schooling because of the benefits it provides to their children and home.

Home education, is also known as homeschooling, and it offers a tailored and flexible approach to learning that caters to the individual needs and preferences of students. The essential goal is for your child to thrive and develop in their own unique way – academically or vocationally.

What are some of the benefits of Home Education?

For many families, taking more control over what their children learn is an exciting journey that they pour a lot of intent into. It’s focus can be on the individual and tailored needs of both the child and parent. Here are a few reasons why home education is valued by us:

1. Tailored learning: One of the benefits that we have found is the ability to tailor curriculum to the unique learning style, pace, and interests of our boys. It has taken a lot of work to unlearn particular ways because the goal for us is for our children to build up their own natural ability to seek out learning for themselves, engage with and fall in love with learning.
2. Flexibility and freedom: Home education provides us with the flexibility to design a schedule that suits our lifestyle. I always tell my husband that I enjoy living the “off peak” life! Life seems so much more spacious for us and we can take our time to organise travel, extend our exploration of subjects and interests because truly there is no race. We also have time to include the integration of real-world experiences into the boys learning process.
3. Whole development: There is so much more to us than where we rank on test scores. While they are important in a certain context, they aren’t reflective of the whole person. Home education often has given us an opportunity to nurture not only academic skills but also character, values, and life skills which is so key. We enjoy involving the boys in practical experiences, such as cooking, outdoor work, cleaning, building, fixing etc, because we know that it adds to who they are by encouraging them to manage their time and space, to take responsibility for their own learning and to mature slowly in the areas of day to day life.
4. Building a strong family relationship: Home education encourages close relationships between us and our children because we are with them all the time! We all share in the experience of learning, problem-solving, and exploring the world together and this builds a deep family bond that extends beyond traditional roles.
5. Protection from peer pressure at an early age: We are all bent towards peer influence. It is built into the fabric of who we are and how we relate to one another and the world around us. Some influence is good and some is not beneficial. We feel strongly about helping our boys to lean towards independent thinking, being free from peer pressure at such an early age so they can be more open to thinking critically and forming their own thoughts and opinions.
6. Encouraging our values and beliefs: Home education enables us to incorporate our spiritual values, beliefs, and cultural perspectives into the boys’ educational experience which is very important to us. This customisation and normalisation helps us to ensure that their education aligns with our core principles and cultural background.
7. Academic excellence: Academic excellence is what I started our journey with, but I quickly realised that in order to achieve that, we had to work on character formation first. The blessing of home education is that if we trust the process and remain consistent, we have no doubt that academic success will follow- more so the desire to work hard and learn to enter their areas of interest.

This route isn’t for every family, but I am slowly believing more and more that for the child, it can be a beautiful route that not only sets the stage for a lifelong love of learning, but allows them to take their time and savour the journey of becoming. I love that!

Challenges of Home Education

These are just a few of the challenges that I have had discussions with others about and I do think that it can also be subjective based on the nature of the parent and child:

1. Limited social interaction: This is a very popular concern when people find out that we home educate! Critics often highlight concerns about limited socialisation opportunities and this can be true for certain families. However we have found that this isn’t a challenge for us because there is just so much to do! Between extracurricular activities, community events and co-ops, our weekly calendar is full of opportunities for the boys to interact with friends and those older than them! Socialisation is what you make of it!
2. Parental Commitment: Home education requires a significant commitment from parents, who become the primary educators. This area for me is the toughest. Balancing work, household responsibilities, and teaching is demanding, and planning is so necessary to keep things moving well
3. Navigating the regulatory landscape: While home education is legal in the UK, families must adhere to certain regulations depending on the borough that they live in. Navigating these regulations can be daunting so it’s best to check online. In the UK, home education is legal and actually recognised as a valid educational choice even with the diverse approaches in this community.

It feels like Home education in the UK is a dynamic and growing phenomenon, because it offers families a flexible and personalised alternative to traditional schooling. We just need to grow in confidence that even if it has very hard parts, we can do it! We can create a rich and fulfilling learning experience for our children, nurturing their curious minds and fostering a lifelong love of learning.